family, friends or love?
18 years ago
Posts: 261
I could never be without my mom she is both family and friend
but a few of my closest friends I already consider family so really family
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18 years ago
Posts: 87
<_< If I had a choice... My kitty.... and if didn't get the choice of kitty... then Stump...
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18 years ago
Posts: 4
Family. I can be myself around them and have known them my whole life, they also can act like my friends, I tell my close family members just about as much as I tell my friends, and when a friend bugs me I get to rant about them to my family and know that they don't have conflicting loyalties so they'd never tell the person I'm ranting about what I've had to say! 😀
My friends come second, I love them, they're great, but they have certain qualities that just annoy me sometimes, I can't imagine being around them all the time.
18 years ago
Posts: 548
family then love friends come last cause you can always make new ones 😀
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18 years ago
Posts: 1096
Family without a doubt. The bonds you form with people outside of your family are always fragile.
18 years ago
Posts: 97
Im for the friends.Theres no other choice for me . Though considering the kind of guy I am . Im more than willing throw myself in front of a truck to save someone i barely know or anyone I know for that matter.
I just hang out with your friends for fun, but once it comes to serious thing, family is more important.
but I think this matter is different for each people.
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18 years ago
Posts: 135
I'd choose family above all. They're the people, you're stuck with, and they're stuck with you. You'll go through everything and they'd be by your side. Friends, no matter how close, may one day be replaced because people disperse, but family will not. Plus, you've got that special bond with family members, nothing can top that 😐
I'd then choose friends over love. Friends give you warmth and shelter, and are pretty much family, I'd totally give up a relationship if I had to choose between the two. But then again, maybe this is because I've yet to fall in love :/
17 years ago
Posts: 2708
Such a difficult question... I once read a quote that said "if you don't love, you don't live". I think love can be a wonderful thing, but I haven't decided where I stand on all the concepts about it. Friends... there are some people you can just bond with while there are others you can think you need, but easily let go off afterall. Family... you're pretty much stuck with them unless they let you go and sometimes that's better for you. I think you can do without all of them, but I think that the person who doesn't have any of them might actually appreciate it more than anyone else.
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Um, friends. Family is only linked to you through blood ties, and while they can go beyond that, they can still totally screw you over. Hence, friends, who prove themselves and whom you choose, are more important in my opinion. Also, if I'm really close to someone in my family, I call them a friend, not a relative, which also goes towards why I voted the way I did.
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17 years ago
Posts: 536
Well generally when you have a lover you can start a family sometime later, and friend what if your lover is your friend as well 😕 😕 ?
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17 years ago
Posts: 40
It depends on the people. I consider those who I love and/or care about "family". It doesn't matter if they are related by blood or not.
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17 years ago
Posts: 2708
I'd like to know why we'd have to choose. It might sound selfish, but I keep edging towards love - I would have to know a few specifics first.
I go away and suddenly the spammers are the mods. Okay, I can adjust to that, but... Gorath?! And what's up with Mam's not being the top poster?
210 days until I'm legal, Indy!
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17 years ago
Posts: 4764
It's a hard one... I'm between "friends" and "love"...
Why the hell would anyone choose>.<
But "love" I think...
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