family, friends or love?

18 years ago
Posts: 15
Family, definitely . lover becomes a family; and good friends is sometimes become a kind of family too. 😀
Because of your existence
I can acknowledge my own !
18 years ago
Posts: 1
friends are just ppl there for you to console one other, to make a person's life least boring. love is just plainly for pressure and some what called "Friends with benefit"...
So I say family, nothing more important then that.
But of course a lunatic like me would say that. Others might think differently.
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[quote=skittles]I love my brother forever ♥♥~ If he marries and moves out, I'm still sticking to him like glue 😛
I figure that.. if I like a boy more than my brother, he must be somebody I should marry.
.....so...you have a brother complex.
I do! Isn't it great? 🤣
Kinky yet freaky >_>[/quote]
I think it is awesome. 🙂

18 years ago
Posts: 159
Friends are fun to hang out with but no one them are that important to me. My vote goes to family even though only person in my family i really talk with is my little brother.

18 years ago
Posts: 481
Neither. All 3 are unreliable.
Family, Blood is thicker than water, but they are jsut people who share the same blood as you, nothign more.
Friends, People can change.
Love. Nothing is forever.
Whats important is your view on things and how you look at all three and how you grew up around all three.
To me, neither of the three are my choice.
and if you havn't noticed im pretty pessimistic 😛
18 years ago
Posts: 17
I chose family.
Even though friends are fun to have around, family is more important to me since my life revolves more around my family than my friends. And friends are fun to have around, but you have to remember that just because they're a friend to you, does not mean that you're definitely a friend to them. And friends CAN betray you (of course, they stop being your friend after that).
And I'd say family more than love because if you truly love your significant other enough, eventually, he/she would become your family 😉

18 years ago
Posts: 665
Family, aka love in filio. Friends come and go, and lovers' time passes, but blood remains.

18 years ago
Posts: 339
Friends are people you know well, care for, and trust. Them not knowing you hate them doesn't make any difference. Now they probably treat or look at you as a friend.. But you can't say that they're yours.
Brother complex huh.. My only sibling is my brother and I'm straight so no complex for me..

18 years ago
Posts: 1566
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Friends are people you know well, care for, and trust. Them not knowing you hate them doesn't make any difference. Now they probably treat or look at you as a friend.. But you can't say that they're yours.
Brother complex huh.. My only sibling is my brother and I'm straight so no complex for me..
huh?? Doesn't brother complex just mean I like him very much? Like family love. So, if I have a sister, and I'm straight, I can't have a sister complex?? =S What is complex?

18 years ago
Posts: 159
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Friends are people you know well, care for, and trust. Them not knowing you hate them doesn't make any difference. Now they probably treat or look at you as a friend.. But you can't say that they're yours.
Brother complex huh.. My only sibling is my brother and I'm straight so no complex for me..huh?? Doesn't brother complex just mean I like him very much? Like family love. So, if I have a sister, and I'm straight, I can't have a sister complex?? =S What is complex?
Likeing your brother doesnt mean that you have complex.
Complex would be if your brother dates other girl and you think she is stealing him from you... or so i think ^^

18 years ago
Posts: 339
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huh?? Doesn't brother complex just mean I like him very much? Like family love. So, if I have a sister, and I'm straight, I can't have a sister complex?? =S What is complex?
Figured it would be brought up eventually.. I realized that hole but it was after I had typed it.. Didn't feel like changing it so I just left it.
A complex is a knot of unconscious feelings seen through behavior that is puzzling or hard to account for.
I suppose under extreme circumstances I could have a complex and still be straight.. But either way.. Earlier I said I despised him so still no complex for me 🙂
Emerald's circumstance could be an example of both I guess... I mean.. You could just be very fond or overprotective of him..

18 years ago
Posts: 492
when you got your hold on love, you'll get everything(or lost everything)
Let's get Kickin' ...whatever that means

18 years ago
Posts: 1566
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huh?? Doesn't brother complex just mean I like him very much? Like family love. So, if I have a sister, and I'm straight, I can't have a sister complex?? =S What is complex?
Figured it would be brought up eventually.. I realized that hole but it was after I had typed it.. Didn't feel like changing it so I just left it.
A complex is a knot of unconscious feelings seen through behavior that is puzzling or hard to account for.
I suppose under extreme circumstances I could have a complex and still be straight.. But either way.. Earlier I said I despised him so still no complex for me 🙂
Emerald's circumstance could be an example of both I guess... I mean.. You could just be very fond or overprotective of him..
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Likeing your brother doesnt mean that you have complex.
Complex would be if your brother dates other girl and you think she is stealing him from you... or so i think ^^
In conclusion... I have a "half" complex 🤣 I'm not in love with my brother, but I do like him a lot more than all my friends. Half (50%) complex! 😃

18 years ago
Posts: 218
After having my eyes opened to the fact that all my life my family has never treated me as a real person (especially now that I'm an adult and attempting to fly the nest), and the fact that they've been using fear and guilt all my life in order to "control" and force me to obey their wishes, I can't choose family.
I've never had any close friends, so I can't choose that either.
I'll have to choose the only person who understands and accepts me completely: love.