would you rather be loved by everyone,but hated by the one you love,or be hated by everyone but loved by the one you love?
14 years ago
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being loved by everyone doesn't really suit me,
I go for 'hated by everyone but loved by the person i love the most.'
very simple, the one I love the most, means the most to me. I wouldn't care about anyone that hates me as long as I have him.
14 years ago
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id rather choose not to be loved at all .. hate is a more pleasant feeling
14 years ago
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Loved by everyone, hated by the one i love suits me...
To be honest, asking to be loved is selfish on both acounts anyhow. I just chose the one that would make my life easier, simple.
Also, I would suggest changing your first post to, there is "no nether option" and if so don't bother typing, you waste of space. 😛
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Unrequited love sucks.
I'd rather be loved by the one I love.
I hate the world anyways, why not let them hate me too.
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As all future plans that I have to run for elected office depend intrinsically on my ability to connect with people and garner positive support, I would choose to be loved by everyone except that one special person.
Love is good, wonderful even, but I have greater plans in my life. I want to make a mark, I want to do some good, and if I would have to do it alone, then so be it.
14 years ago
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I think I'd rather be loved by everyone,but hated by the one I love. I mean it's not like I'm capable of loving only 1 person, and being hated by everyone...just think about that for a few moments and try to imagine how you'd live like that.
Who would hire you? Would you mooch off your loved one?
The hiring process isn't supposed to be affected by things like if you like the person or not. At least corporations like Walmart or UPS wouldn't be that biased. And just because everyone hates you doesn't mean there has to be conflict. There is always a way around these things.
I would want to be loved by the one I love. If I really loved her, then she would be worth the world's hate anyways.
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14 years ago
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Loved by the one I love, without doubt. I never wanted to be loved by everyone.
And anyway, it would make life interesting.
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Rather be loved by everyone, since that is far more logical in the long run.
14 years ago
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Rather be hated by everyone but loved by the one that I love because that person matters the most.
This question is really a no brainer. If you've experienced love in your life which is reciprocated by the other person, everyone would know what the answer is. Love makes that one person so special that the rest don't matter.
Interesting question, as it relates to my personality. I'm constantly told by my best friends that no one believes my real personality because unless you get close to me, my real personality does not shine through. I give HORRIBLE first impressions which last with people. There are two camps of thought regarding my personality: those that know me very well, and those that don't.
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14 years ago
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It would be wiser I think to be "loved by everyone but hated by the one you love"
Without passionate love, if I am loved by everyone I can find many platonic loves and still obtain satisfaction in my social life.
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14 years ago
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Quote from mattai
I think I'd rather be loved by everyone,but hated by the one I love. I mean it's not like I'm capable of loving only 1 person, and being hated by everyone...just think about that for a few moments and try to imagine how you'd live like that.
Who would hire you? Would you mooch off your loved one?
The hiring process isn't supposed to be affected by things like if you like the person or not. At least corporations like Walmart or UPS wouldn't be that biased. And just because everyone hates you doesn't mean there has to be conflict. There is always a way around these things.
I would want to be loved by the one I love. If I really loved her, then she would be worth the world's hate anyways.
Try doing a job interview with someone who honestly HATES you and see how it turns out. Even if they don't actively just decide to fail you, they'll be inclined to look at everything you do in a negative light.
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14 years ago
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Sure Loved by the one I Ioved 😃
I have one's love, why must I care about chickens that hates me? 🤢
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14 years ago
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Definitely hated by everyone because I already like everyone is annoying so for them to hate me back just seems fair. Besides that gives me a reason to be an jerk when I don;t feel like being nice, which is most of the time.
14 years ago
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it actually depends on the circumstances because if i dont have this curse that make any man i logve hate me then it would be alright to not be love by my previous love because as you have said everybody loves me so its not that hard to find a replacement
but it is not so..
i'll rather be with the one i love! <how romantic!~!> its us against the world!!! <3 😛
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14 years ago
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I'd rather be loved by everyone and hated by the one I love. Surprisingly, this question isn't hard for me to answer, as I'd much rather by loved by the other 6 billion people that make up the population on Earth than just one measly person. Yep, I'm egotistical like that. I'd definitely give up love for a happier life (as in, being loved by everyone) and a good reputation.
