would you rather be loved by everyone,but hated by the one you love,or be hated by everyone but loved by the one you love?
14 years ago
Posts: 140
Well, you don't fall in love only once, lot's of nice girls out there so I'd pick being loved by everyone and wait until I fall in love again.
14 years ago
Posts: 154
Hated by like everyone everyone?
Because if only the person (singular) I love is the only one that loves me I am thinking there is something wrong with me and definitely something wrong with him.
Humans need social interaction. It does not have to be in numbers of more than two digits, but only one is not healthy in any way...
If the person I love hates me, well that means that is their loss. My friends and family see something in me worth loving. As important, I see traits in me worth loving. Trying to keep a person that do not appreciate you is not good for your hearth or soul.
14 years ago
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Quote from Mamsmilk
Quote from WandereroftheDeep
You're right, nothing lasts forever; all good things must come to an end, etc.
But I'd still like the good things to last until I'm gone.I know you can't expect to be in love forever, but isn't love what remains after being in love has passed?
Staying together for the rest of your lives in peace even though the butterflies are already dead, isn't that also love?Sounds like a life wasted.
hmm?not really...i wouldnt put it that way...
this won't really happen,its just a what-if situation
in a world like the one we're living in,people who truly love are very rare,
i think anyone willing to lead a wasted life to be with their loved ones deserves respect.
14 years ago
Posts: 35
I think there is something to be qualified with this topic.
Say, on the 1st premise. Everyone loves you, but the one you love hates you. So does that mean that I cannot love the people who loves me? Coz, once I love them, then they'd hate me.
If this is the case, then is it fine to be loved by everyone you cannot give a special kind of love? Coz, when we say everyone, we apply different kinds of love towards them with regards to our relationship. e.g family, friends, strangers, and the special kind.
I'm saying this coz the 2nd premise would lose it's purpose if when we choose the 1st, we'd circumvent the condition by saying that we'd wait for someone else whom we can give the special kind of love without being hate.
