would you rather be loved by everyone,but hated by the one you love,or be hated by everyone but loved by the one you love?

14 years ago
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this question was mentioned in many manhwas ive read before,i thought it was a good one so i posted it here,if something like this was already asked before pls tell me 😀
as for me,i dont have anyone in mind at the moment so i cant really answer the question

14 years ago
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Rather be hated by everyone but loved by the one that I love because that person matters the most.

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Rather be hated by everyone but loved by the one that I love because that person matters the most.
This.
Being hated by everyone else would be pretty dang inconvenient, though. 😐
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Rather be hated by everyone but loved by the one that I love because that person matters the most.
Thirded.
Being loved by everyone might be nice, though.
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14 years ago
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I rather be loved by many and hated by the person I like. I mean, how great can one stupid person be anyway? Unless that person is my mother, then I couldn't take it.

14 years ago
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I'd rather be loved by everyone.
I think that makes sense: if everyone loves you, and the person you love hates you, I think that it makes that person even more special/interesting. I would love him more! (I sound so creepy) 🤣

14 years ago
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Flowers of Evil, no? ^ ^
I'm pretty sure my choice would be to be loved by the one, especially as I'd end up not being able to care about so many other people anyway.
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I rather be loved by many and hated by the person I like.
Seconded. Besides, I don't have anyone special in my mind atm. Besides, you can always find another one to love amongst those people who love you. XD

14 years ago
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I prefer the third option...
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14 years ago
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Quote from ForteAtrox
Rather be hated by everyone but loved by the one that I love because that person matters the most.
Agree with this. As long as I have Mina I don't care what the rest thinks of me.
So tell me, what's it like living in a constant haze of stupidity?

14 years ago
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Rather be hated by everyone but loved by the one that I love because that person matters the most.
this of course. why should i want to be hated by the person i love? i´d commit suicide if that would happen

14 years ago
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I think I'd rather be loved by everyone,but hated by the one I love. I mean it's not like I'm capable of loving only 1 person, and being hated by everyone...just think about that for a few moments and try to imagine how you'd live like that.
Who would hire you? Would you mooch off your loved one?
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14 years ago
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I rather be loved by many and hated by the person I like.
Seconded. Besides, I don't have anyone special in my mind atm. Besides, you can always find another one to love amongst those people who love you. XD
If you do find someone you love, wouldn't they start hating you then?
I'd choose to be loved by everyone but hated by loved one.
Familiarity breeds contempt after all, that's really the point of marriage.

14 years ago
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i think the question is actually about love and friendship,which one would you give up for the other?
love can be bittersweet,can make you weaker(especially if your interest is cold or indifferent towards you)
but friendship is always a source of strength,so i choose being loved by everyone but hated by the one i love....
I choose neither.
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