Hated by everybody.

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I couldn't live with everyone hating me. I'd rather be lovesick than having no friends! Because your friends can help you overcome lovesickness.

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this question was mentioned in many manhwas ive read before,i thought it was a good one so i posted it here,if something like this was already asked before pls tell me 😀

as for me,i dont have anyone in mind at the moment so i cant really answer the question

Eh, I feel very strongly about the friends I have. I'd be sad and confused as to why they would suddenly hate me.

As for this "one I love", I'd honestly question why I love this person in the first place if she hates me. If it's due to a single-misunderstanding, I think I could probably explain myself well-enough. If she doesn't accept it or doesn't even allow me a chance to explain myself, then it's her loss. I wouldn't like her anyway.

I'd also wonder why this person loves me when I'm hated by "everyone" else.

"Everyone" is a lot of people, and it includes family, after all.

Perhaps you weren't very clear with your question. Perhaps by "Everyone" you simply meant the people in a very closed and small community. I have lived (not just "visited") in many different places, and have a wide variety of friends/family... so there would have to be something seriously wrong with me if "everyone" hated me except for one person.

loved by everyone, I can't possibly love someone who hates me 🤣

"we are people because of other people"
"I am who I am because of who we all are"

rather be hated by everyone than hated by the person I love...even though I don't have anyone in mind, I think I would regret causing that person to hate me.

I am the master of my fate;
I am the captin of my soul.
William Ernest Henely

I rate manga with 5 being the average score.

Loved by everyone sounds really creepy but I wouldn't want to spend the rest of my life having peaceful conversations with the only person who loves me. Imagine exhausting all the subjects. And even if there was more to talk about I'd rather know more views from more people. I'd hate to be limited to interacting with only one person. And imagining me, being hated by everybody, while I am loved by only one person I could never feel comfortable around that person.
"- Uh so what did you do today?"
"- Got fired, someone tripped me and then some colleagues gave me an egg shower."
"- I love you."

No goddamn way am I gonna live like that. I think my choice is obvious.

[color=black]Does not compute.[/color]

I guess I would have to go with the later. I really don't care what people think of me anyway. Honestly, if I have her, why should I care about anything else? I noticed that it doesn't say anything about animals....so I can keep my dog right?

Although...how deep is this love from everyone? Would this be like a harem full of women that I don't care about, or would people just respect me?*

*This could be key to my decision. I need a reply asap.

ahaha no.no harem xD
loved by everyone as in respected by people around you

If I could love, and be loved in return, I don't need anyone else and don't care whether or not they hate me, as long as they leave me alone.

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well to be honest... ive never been in love for that long... and it usually ended with me having a change in feelings... besides i kinda like the feeling of a love not meant to be...
it hurts but you are still happy despite that... well some people are... others will go crazy and start stabbin folk >o>

what can i say, i like having friends... and i can be intimate with them just as much as a lover... though preferably not both emotionally and physically or else it gets icky and the distinction between lover and friend is lost

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Love does not only happen once.
Neither does it last forever.
It is a social suicide to have only one person,
because the relationship is bound to fall in those
circumstances.

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Love does not only happen once.
Neither does it last forever.
It is a social suicide to have only one person,
because the relationship is bound to fall in those
circumstances.

You're right, nothing lasts forever; all good things must come to an end, etc.
But I'd still like the good things to last until I'm gone.

I know you can't expect to be in love forever, but isn't love what remains after being in love has passed?
Staying together for the rest of your lives in peace even though the butterflies are already dead, isn't that also love?

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Quote from Mamsmilk

Love does not only happen once.
Neither does it last forever.
It is a social suicide to have only one person,
because the relationship is bound to fall in those
circumstances.

You're right, nothing lasts forever; all good things must come to an end, etc.
But I'd still like the good things to last until I'm gone.

I know you can't expect to be in love forever, but isn't love what remains after being in love has passed?
Staying together for the rest of your lives in peace even though the butterflies are already dead, isn't that also love?

Sounds like a life wasted.

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Quote from Mamsmilk

Love does not only happen once.
Neither does it last forever.
It is a social suicide to have only one person,
because the relationship is bound to fall in those
circumstances.

You're right, nothing lasts forever; all good things must come to an end, etc.
But I'd still like the good things to last until I'm gone.

I know you can't expect to be in love forever, but isn't love what remains after being in love has passed?
Staying together for the rest of your lives in peace even though the butterflies are already dead, isn't that also love?

Sounds like a life wasted.

You're both part right - love is a romantic notion, but it has to be practical to survive. Even if you ignore the notions of the world and society, you need to be ale to keep up to the notions of your loved ones. A true love is not one which defies society, but one which accomodates itself into society, making others accept it. Weeds never survive, roses do.

There are times when you will miss what you never had. I wonder how you will find what you so desperately need.

I'd rather be loved by the one that I love, even when the world hates me. I had a fair share of friendship and camaraderie, but when I grow old and on my death bed or when I die, I don't think i'd prefer to see them on my last moments. When my last glimpse beholds my loved one, that'd be one good memory to bring to the afterlife! 🙂