Marriage
17 years ago
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Quote from Cerulean
as long as i'm in perfect physical, emotional, and psychological condition to give my consent for marriage 😀
I'm worried because you worry about this scenario. Unless you mean drunk in Las Vegas, I hope this isn't a possibility for you.
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17 years ago
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blahhh I don't wanna get married ever. it doesn't seem like fun. the idea of being a "mrs" or a wife would just make me feel old. =( though I suppose if I found the right person, I might consider it. =\ even then, it'd just involve signing a legal document. no priest / religious ceremony for me. maybe a party though. =D
17 years ago
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Quote from aneste
why would i want to bind myself to just one guy?? marriage doesnt sounds like that much fun to me.. too much work to do. we should have fun while we r young 😃 ppl can get married when they r at their 40s too *refers to "sex and the city" * 😃
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17 years ago
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When I do get married, I plan on it being done either at the courthouse or a small ceremony with just a priest and 2 or three witnesses, and then having a big party afterward.
No expensive bullshit for me.
That's how it should be, only the most important people.
Not every friend's mother and their brothers.
My father had that type. Though, he was already together with the person for 13ish years, so I'm not sure why they got married at all. It was a fun party though.
I fail to see the importance of marriage except perhaps to make your children feel more secure. Only problem is: I'm not exactly sure people should have children right now (please no responses to that).
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17 years ago
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Quote from ahoaho
When I do get married, I plan on it being done either at the courthouse or a small ceremony with just a priest and 2 or three witnesses, and then having a big party afterward.
No expensive bullshit for me.
That's how it should be, only the most important people.
Not every friend's mother and their brothers.My father had that type. Though, he was already together with the person for 13ish years, so I'm not sure why they got married at all. It was a fun party though.
I fail to see the importance of marriage except perhaps to make your children feel more secure. Only problem is: I'm not exactly sure people should have children right now (please no responses to that).
What people and when is now?
I don't plan on getting married or having children until I have found a suitable woman with whom to do so.
Also, the point of marriage is mainly legal in theory, though emotion does come into play, obviously. I find it to be an important statement about one's character.
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17 years ago
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Quote from aneste
why would i want to bind myself to just one guy?? marriage doesnt sounds like that much fun to me.. too much work to do. we should have fun while we r young 😃 ppl can get married when they r at their 40s too *refers to "sex and the city" * 😃
Thoughts like these make me fear for future generations [img]http://img3.harmony-central.com/acapella/ubb/facepalm.gif[/img]
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A lot of you kiddies don't really get the concept of marriage. Marriage isn't just some legal crap that gives some benefits but makes it harder to leave the relationship. Marriage is a promise that you will cherish that person you love forever. You won't give up when any problems arise, you both will fight through them together as one, financial, marital or whatever. Many people don't take marriage a serious before cause it's easy to get a divorce if you can afford it. Before marriage was sacred, and you had better have though about it seriously because it was much harder to divorce. I could go on, but I'd probably ramble and now I fell like an old fart.
17 years ago
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well in the end isnt is only a piece of paper?? it is not something that bind u someone forever or long years.. i mean u only stay with him cause u love him not cause u are married to him.. and even if u dont have much money it is not that hard to get a divorce (at least in my country)... and one more thing i think getting a divorce mean u just made a mistake.. u cant simply decide for future.. how can u know that u will be still loving him after ten years? divorce just makes it easier i guess.. u know that if he is not the one for u, you can just give another try.. if u believe marriage is gonna protect your relationship with your lovers then i think there is something wrong with that.. marriage just makes running away a little bit harder... of course thats just me saying that.. and for future generations there is so much to fear for them.. and marriage is at the bottom of the list i guess 🙄
17 years ago
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Too early for marriage >_>
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Quote from aneste
well in the end isnt is only a piece of paper?? it is not something that bind u someone forever or long years.. i mean u only stay with him cause u love him not cause u are married to him.. and even if u dont have much money it is not that hard to get a divorce (at least in my country)... and one more thing i think getting a divorce mean u just made a mistake.. u cant simply decide for future.. how can u know that u will be still loving him after ten years? divorce just makes it easier i guess.. u know that if he is not the one for u, you can just give another try.. if u believe marriage is gonna protect your relationship with your lovers then i think there is something wrong with that.. marriage just makes running away a little bit harder... of course thats just me saying that.. and for future generations there is so much to fear for them.. and marriage is at the bottom of the list i guess 🙄
First off, you and everyone else knows how powerful a piece of paper can be.
Ok, Marriage isn't supposed to be about commitment, or protection of relationships. Marriage is more or less the unification of two souls in holy matrimony, the ultimate bond of love, pride, blood, and dreams. Or that's what it used to be. I'm old school, and that's how I see it, so if you don't have the foresight to tell that somewhere down the road your spouse might try to pull somethin to screw you over, then stay single...
Or holla "We want prenupt! WE WANT PRENUPT! Yeah!! It's something that you need to have, cause when she leave your ass she gone leave with half."- Kanye West
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17 years ago
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17 years ago
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17 years ago
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im 18, but im really not sure if i ever get married.
first, cuz me getting a bf is a dream doomed to never come true, second, im an atheist and in my country marriage is done through religion only, so the only way to get married is to marry outside of the country and submit the papers, or sign a contract of "known in the community" that has most of the marriage benefits but is not technically marriage.
anyways its all far away from me, since i wont marry before i get a bf that i either got pregnant bcuz of him (and that is only if i like him and we dated long, any other option we just raise the kid separately) or we both have enough money to support a small kingdom.
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17 years ago
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I wish to get married by 25 >.< Any older and my chances of having a prime army shall decrease 🤣
But seriously though...I'm 19, I've never had a girlfriend before, and I've never been kissed shot
Even if I plan to get married by 25, it all rests upon my fate...
...voted first choice anyways 🤣
17 years ago
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The wonders of 'forum search'... I was about to make a topic similar to this, but since this already exists, I'll just hijack it.
Okay, question. Do you intend to get married? If not, is it due to a religious reason? And if you are getting married, why? Also, what do you think of marriage as a whole?
(I'm not sure exactly how civil unions equate to marriage, but I want answers on that, too!)
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17 years ago
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The wonders of 'forum search'... I was about to make a topic similar to this, but since this already exists, I'll just hijack it.
Okay, question. Do you intend to get married? If not, is it due to a religious reason? And if you are getting married, why? Also, what do you think of marriage as a whole?
(I'm not sure exactly how civil unions equate to marriage, but I want answers on that, too!)
The first question is answered pretty well in this thread already, as is the second, and third.
That's why broad subject titles are cool.
Makes me think that's just a reiteration of the OP.
No thread hijacking, please.
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