I really want a new yaoi or shounen-ai (I'm not too picky between the difference) to read. I really like aitsu no daihonmei so if there's something like that please tell me.
There are some things that i probably would not like to have
Crybaby's
Rape
Horror
Tradegy
Mecha (I'm not even sure there are any yaoi manga's with mecha)
sports and supernatural
if you have any suggestions please answerand thank you in advance 😮

Here are my recommendations:

Hana no Mizo Shiru
Tenohira no Seiza
Miteranneeyo
Koutetsu no Baby Leaf
Anohito to Nitenai Kuchibiru (all the stories except for chapters 3 and 5- skip those)
Tight Rope
Aozora no Sunda Iro wa
G-Senjou no Neko
Manazashi no Hayagane (main story only, one of the side stories are rape-ish)
Dekiru Otoko no Sodatekata
Mata Ashita
Kiss no Mukou
Kyoushi mo Iroiro Aru Wake de (has a bit of sports- not the main focus of the story)
Kakko Warukute Kakkoii Kimi
Renai Kyoutei Nukegake Nashi!
Aiteru Door kara Shitsurei Shimasu yo
Mizu no Haru

Will add more on request...

First thing that comes to mind is Loveless.

I second Hana no Mizo Shiru! Totally moved after I read the side stories, too.The same artist drew for Seven Days, which was awesome.

Slow Starter
Butterfly Baby
Cello Mellow
Hybrid Child
CUT

I liked G-Senjou no Neko at the time but I'm not sure if you'd like that type of main character. Same goes for Let Dai, Little Butterfly, Bukiyou na Silent, Super Lovers, etc.

Antique Bakery is light and lovely, the dj is...on the opposite end of the sexual context spectrum. Yoshinaga Fumi has harder BL works, but none I liked as much as Antique.

If you haven't read her works I recommend Yoneda Kou!
Doushitemo Furetakunai. I just realized, her other works are kind of angsty...

JUNKO writes some pretty fluffy BL.
Kimi Note
Konbini-kun
Youthful Love
Star-like Words
There's a bunch more, they're basically all adorable.

My other favorite is est em! Everything she touches is amazing...
Ultras was ultra cute.

Ono Natsume is likewise amazing.