Alright here is a random discussion topic that just came to me that would be interesting to hear people's opinions. I recently read a story that involved the main girl cheating for a while on the guy she was suppose to be going out with. What are people's views on the whole cheating ordeal. I guess my personal opinion is that why drag on anything with people your not interested in. Such as was the case in this story. Just starting up a chat about a topic i found interesting.

"Let's put a smile on that face."

Are you asking if people believe cheating is wrong or right? Or are you asking what the point of cheating on someone? Why would someone resort to cheating on someone? Just need some clarification on topic.

anything really, either or, just sorta interested in what people's opinions are on the topic in general, seeing as my 4 sisters all had different answers.

"Let's put a smile on that face."

while I don't have any personal experience in this erk! I think the worst part of the whole thing would be the dishonesty.

What if we separate love from sex (they don't have to be the same thing), and then one-night-stands could be excepted? Wouldn't everyone prefer that? 🤣

You know, maybe the wife's libido has been down all week but yours hasn't:
"Honey, I'm going to go do a one-nighter tonight, okay?"
"Yeah, okay, just be back by breakfast!"
And off to the tavern you go!

Ah, dreams 🤣

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bah. i think cheating is wrong. it's just... not loyal. no matter the circumstance. 😛

but of course someone has to go and argue with me and say that that kind of thinking will screw me over later in life. sheesh

whatever happened to knowing exactly what was wrong or right?

i still think that cheating on your spouse is just plain wrong. even in a committed relationship... cheating is just plain bad. If the girl or guy thinks that they're not getting enough out of the relationship, break it off. don't be a douche and cheat.. then later complain... oohh sob i just wasn't getting enough love from the relationship, so i turned to another man/woman.

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-Max

I believe that if you decide to commit into a relationship then there shouldn't be any cheating or anything like that going on. It's plain stupid. Why work so hard on building a relationship then ruining it by having one night slut night? It makes no sense. This is probably why I gave up on dating and just focus more on my studies. Way more easier. 🙄

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if you want to go out with somebody else you should break up with your gf/bf first, it would be hard but it would be doing them a favor, and for yourself too, cheating is just wrong 😔

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Cheating is wrong. Period. If you are in a relationship with someone and you need to find physical love somewhere else, you are using people for selfish ends and you need therapy. If you discussed it with the partner and are both okay with it, then you both need therapy. Don't get in a relationship if you can't control your urges. Cheating only shows others that you are selfish, self-centered, insecure, and dysfunctional. If you feel the need to be with someone other than your partner, you should just end the relationship like a grown-up and do whatever it is you think you have to do. If you decide to cheat, don't be surprised if everything blows up in your face and everyone involved hates you.

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Cheating on a person you once love is not right... cheating on a person you don't love and dated, that's just more wrong, cheating when both don't love each other then that is not cheating x]

I agree that cheating is wrong, it hurt other people and all, leading stuff like crying, slap in the face etc. Funny how some people cheated so that if one break up they still have the other x] that doesn't go right..

If i have opportunity, of course i would try cheating x] I say it's wrong to cheat but i will cheat if i get to see a second hot guy beside my bf [if i marry then i will stick with him forever]. I mean, if i break up with one guy i still have the other, if i get busted then.. i get busted and lose it all 😐 but i don't think i'll get to cheat x] i'm pretty much too loyal to any guys i date... in fact, as long as he is a guy with a decent face i don't mind 😛

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Do no do it. It hurts all of the three or maybe four, five...

what's so bad about being sexually premiscuous? I don't understand why everyone is so insecure about the person you love having pthers people they might love as well. Isn't love one of those ever expanding and adaptable things. Keeping a person tied to you is a little selfish I think. That doesn't mean that a person should leave you with unessecary burden like a std or children. Having multiple partners are what are bodies are built for adaptively, so bascially don't be sneaky about it and take joint responsibilities in the burden of the relationship.

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what's so bad about being sexually premiscuous? I don't understand why everyone is so insecure about the person you love having pthers people they might love as well. Isn't love one of those ever expanding and adaptable things. Keeping a person tied to you is a little selfish I think. That doesn't mean that a person should leave you with unessecary burden like a std or children. Having multiple partners are what are bodies are built for adaptively, so bascially don't be sneaky about it and take joint responsibilities in the burden of the relationship.

You'll catch HIV, man.

Jojomunki (MojoJojo?!?) Please see my post above. Also, if you want to do that sort of thing, don't call it a relationship. That isn't having a caring relationship. It is having a bunch of sex. I don't find anything wrong with being promiscuous (how else would we be sure we find the right person unless we found a bunch of the wrong ones first), but calling it a relationship is lying to yourselves and everyone else you get it on with.

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what's so bad about being sexually premiscuous? I don't understand why everyone is so insecure about the person you love having pthers people they might love as well. Isn't love one of those ever expanding and adaptable things. Keeping a person tied to you is a little selfish I think. That doesn't mean that a person should leave you with unessecary burden like a std or children. Having multiple partners are what are bodies are built for adaptively, so bascially don't be sneaky about it and take joint responsibilities in the burden of the relationship.

It's a very interesting theory but it's not smart or realistic. What would be the point in falling in love be, if you knew that your partner wasn't satisfied with you? But as someone said previously, it would hurt alot of people emotionally. People are social beings, but I doubt sincerely if we were designed to sleep with multiple people. It's not smart because of the emotional damage it does and the risk physically to yourself and others.

Edit: Just cause you can do something doesn't necessarily mean that you should.

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I don't find anything wrong with being promiscuous (how else would we be sure we find the right person unless we found a bunch of the wrong ones first), but calling it a relationship is lying to yourselves and everyone else you get it on with.

Finding the right person trough sex?