I remember my last year of High School, when we did an anonymous poll of our class to see who would stay a virgin until there wedding. And out of total of like 35 only 3 of us said we would do that. So in my eyes, people are just to sex crazed loons.

Virginity isn't a big deal. I like to make whoopi, and I wouldn't chastize anyone else for doing so. Unlesss they were doing something illegal like with children or rape or anything like that.

Actually I would prefer to be with a woman with some experience. Relations with a virgin might be a little boring because they wouldn't know what they are doing, and I'm much to lazy to have to help them figure it out.

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well... sex is a basic need like food, water and shelter...

A fall in a ditch makes you wiser...
-Chinese proverb

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well... sex is a basic need like food, water and shelter...

Bollocks, mating is.

if you like the person... and you two are consenting adults... virginity or not shouldnt matter at all...

A fall in a ditch makes you wiser...
-Chinese proverb

Well I've been off the playing field for over a decade now, but back in the day I was self-nicknamed "The De-Virginator!" Duh duh duHHHHHn!

But seriously, virgin boys are cute in that they are so nervous the first time, but after that they are willing to learn all they can. Very good students. lol Guys with lots of experience never seemed to care as much about the woman's pleasure as they are so sure of themselves and their technique. The best one to get is one who isn't virgin, but hasn't really done it so so much. And those are the ones you marry and call Daddy. ^_^

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Back in the day you would be stoned to death if you had an relations before marriage. Kids these days are so carefree. -____-

I prefer it that way.
People these days are just way too loose and promiscuous (c i can use big words too)
They are also the cause of overpopulation.
I hate the thought of teenage mothers, that just irritates me.
I don't really want to say they deserve the life they are going to have, but i actually do think they do. When i say that they deserve this, people tend to get offensive and get mad at me. They chose to do "it" and they chose to do so w/o any protecction.
I just don't like the whores of the world.
IMO if it were back in the day, there would not be as much economical and political issues.

"Practice makes perfect, but nobody's perfect, so why practice?

Let us just pick our stoneaxes and
I'll beat you all to smithereens, then
it all is fine. 😀

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and thank YOU, for telling me the secret of of reproduction....i've NEVER known how to do it before.....i owe you one 🙂

Your post was implying sexing can only be done by a master.

Hey, if you want to look for a manwhore, good luck to you. Enjoy your AIDS. :/

"Sexing" can - and has - been done by just about anyone who was ever curious about the properties of 'Tab A' and 'Slot B'. Gender, experience, and - outside of certain limitations - age, are all totally irrelevant.

Good Sexing, the kind where your partner snuggles up to you, looks you straight in the eye, and says "Thanks, you were wonderful!" with a smile on their face, takes both experience and skill. And, IMHO, is one of the best ways to say: "Hey, you're important to me."

In my book; virginity is a correctable problem, sluttish behavior is an uncorrectable problem, and obsessing about virginity is frequently associated with religious beliefs that make me run for the hills. I'll stick with people who have the same set of values I do: the best sex is achieved by concentrating on your partners pleasure - it's the Golden Rule all over again. : )

As for the difference between male and female behaviors, I think most of it is a holdover from the now-universally debunked myth that You-Can-Always-Tell-If-A-Girl-Is-A-Virgin-By-Looking-At-The-Hymen. Give it another generation or two, and 'player', 'slut', and 'whore' will be fully gender neutral terms.

I could go on and on about why I think abstinence before marriage is a bad idea, but I will narrow my focus to two points. First, to me sex is not primarily a necessity of reproduction or simply a way to make myself feel good, it is a method of communication, one that is a component of any health and complete relationship (although it is certainly the other two as well). Second, it has a tendency to deemphasize the scale of the commitment that marriage represents. You need to really know the person you are committing to spend the rest of your life with, such a thing can not be done in a year or two. I doubt I could come to completely know a person - at least to the extent that such a thing is possible - given even the better part of a decade, and I certainly could not do so in the paltry amount of time most people seem to consider adequate.

And that is all the ranting I will do for now, I am beginning to slip into my "Yes, Minister" method of speech and my arguments are becoming fragmented and erratic.

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well... sex is a basic need like food, water and shelter...

Bollocks, mating is.

nah... its sex... its true that humans can have sex for either pleasure or reproduction... but to be mentally healthy its recommended that people do it for pleasure... which is why people who's gone through menopause still have sex... but im not really saying that people should just up and go do the nasty... everything should be done in moderation or with protection...

A fall in a ditch makes you wiser...
-Chinese proverb

Er. I don't think sleeping around is a bad thing, as long as everything's consensual and they take care of their body, right?

For me, I'm a virgin and I wouldn't have casual sex, but other people are entitled to their opinions and decisions. So I'm not quite sure what is so "bad" or "disgusting" about sleeping around as long as there's a level of respect that's maintained.

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Er. I don't think sleeping around is a bad thing, as long as everything's consensual and they take care of their body, right?

For me, I'm a virgin and I wouldn't have casual sex, but other people are entitled to their opinions and decisions. So I'm not quite sure what is so "bad" or "disgusting" about sleeping around as long as there's a level of respect that's maintained.

And protection. We don't want everyone getting all gross!

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Oh dear... 🤣

Well, for me, I'm glad my boyfriend wasn't a virgin...because just read Futari Ecchi. I wouldn't have wanted my first time to be with someone who came in less than a minute. 😔 And as much as I appreciate it, I have wished a few times that I had been his first...but c'est la vie. No need to worry about something I had no control over.

I admit I once thought of it as some mystical thing...but all those thoughts are gone now. 🤣

And I do agree that sex (only for you and your partner though) is an important aspect of a healthy long-term relationship. 😃

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In a nutshell, guys are sort of pressured to loose it and gain experience and girls to keep it and be "pure".

I don't think that I have ever been pressured to lose it, especially not in highschool. Hell I've got a friend that's kinda promiscuous and when I told him that I would rather wait until marriage than do it before he didn't push it seriously anymore (he does joke about it ever so often when we play against each other online).

Personally I think that virginity should only be taken after marriage, but then again that's probably my religious background talking.

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