Virginity

18 years ago
Posts: 1566
Quote from TheSilentDeath
Personally I think that virginity should only be taken after marriage, but then again that's probably my religious background talking.
I'd love for that to happen (I mean, sex after marriage) But it's not happening... people think I'm stupid for thinking it.
18 years ago
Posts: 278
Quote from araumi
well... sex is a basic need like food, water and shelter...
Somehow I've been able to get along fine without it for 18 years.
I guess I'm an exception to the rule, eh?
Wait a second! My colon...it's twisting. I can feel the veins in my neck snapping apart. This is truly the end. If only I had come across your advice earlier, perhaps I could have saved myself! Goodbye, cruel world! ;________;

18 years ago
Posts: 74
I think it's a good thing if both have some experience. Guys who are wanting a girl who is a virgin when they aren't, IMO, are just sick and unfair. What kind of pervert whose been around the block, want a virgin for? Sounds like he's wanting to live out some porn movie to me. It's unfair too because, to me, the guy is either really bad in bed or some control freak that wants a girl stuck on him because he was her first. I guess the latter can be said about women who want a virgin guy when they aren't.
I don't think it's a good idea to get into a permanent relationship with no experience especially if both don't have any. In the U.S. at least, a lot of marriages fall about because of a lack of satisfaction when it comes to sex. Unfortunately, even if your partner has been around the block, it doesn't mean they know what they are doing. Basically, if your in an intimate relationship with someone, you should pay attention to what your partner likes. Some people are shy or embarrassed and won't give you the feedback you need, but if you've had 3 or 4 partners, at least one of them has helped you learn the basics of what the other sex likes. That can be anything from techniques in bed to how a girl can actually get pregnant to what to say when you're out on a date.
In the end, you can't expect to do anything perfect without anyone to teach you. In school, we don't learn everything from one teacher and the same goes for life. We learn from friends, school mates and co-workers. Sex is a part of life so of course everyone needs help learning and it takes more than one teacher.
Cogito Ergo Sum (I think, therefore I am)

18 years ago
Posts: 612
Quote from Dark_Sage
Quote from Cerulean
and thank YOU, for telling me the secret of of reproduction....i've NEVER known how to do it before.....i owe you one 🙂
Your post was implying sexing can only be done by a master.
Hey, if you want to look for a manwhore, good luck to you. Enjoy your AIDS. :/
your implication is very so wrong, good sir.....if you had actually took the time to look at my previous post, you'd notice that i don't want anything to do with guys with AIDS......don't assume that i prefer manwhore just because i said virgins are inexperienced, nor do you have to be an ass about it......i would never lower my standards, or become so dumb, to lose my virginity to a player/manwhore/manslut/people who think their dicks are the greatest 😃
18 years ago
Posts: 278
Quote from leoak
I don't think it's a good idea to get into a permanent relationship with no experience especially if both don't have any. In the U.S. at least, a lot of marriages fall about because of a lack of satisfaction when it comes to sex. Unfortunately, even if your partner has been around the block, it doesn't mean they know what they are doing. Basically, if your in an intimate relationship with someone, you should pay attention to what your partner likes. Some people are shy or embarrassed and won't give you the feedback you need, but if you've had 3 or 4 partners, at least one of them has helped you learn the basics of what the other sex likes. That can be anything from techniques in bed to how a girl can actually get pregnant to what to say when you're out on a date.
3 or 4? LOL. Like you'd know what a permanent relationship means.
I personally don't want some guy's leftovers, but whatever floats your boat.
Quote from Dark_Sage
Quote from araumi
well... sex is a basic need like food, water and shelter...
Somehow I've been able to get along fine without it for 18 years.
I guess I'm an exception to the rule, eh?
Wait a second! My colon...it's twisting. I can feel the veins in my neck snapping apart. This is truly the end. If only I had come across your advice earlier, perhaps I could have saved myself! Goodbye, cruel world! ;________;
Dont worry, you'll come back in a few days or so, i know i did. Dying of no sex is a temporary disease and causes a temporary death after realization. But alas! THere is no cure... But, after the first death, Theres no more need for worry! Cause its a one time thing, like losing your virginity. Hey, it only hurts the first time xD
18 years ago
Posts: 12
waiting till I'm married, which wont be anytime soon. I only hope I could get a partner who is the same way. I'm getting older now, and I've skipped out on several chances to get laid. some I kind of regret, but I'm proud of myself for saying no. willpower and self control isnt something you see in my generation very often. I just hope I can get married before get any older lol.
of course the main reason I'm hoping for a virgin to marry is simple. if I screw up or suck, she wont know better 😀
not that it would matter if she loved me 🤣
18 years ago
Posts: 70
Quote from Dark_Sage
3 or 4? LOL. Like you'd know what a permanent relationship means.
I personally don't want some guy's leftovers, but whatever floats your boat.
Your statement seems to assume that relationships are an exclusively male prerogative. Whether a person is cycling through relationships or being cycled through relationships can not be determined by gender alone.
18 years ago
Posts: 278
Quote from henl86
Your statement seems to assume that relationships are an exclusively male prerogative.
That's not what I was going for at all, kid.
The only gender-specific part of my post dealt with my personal beliefs, and I'm a guy so it was kind of necessary to have the gender defined.
18 years ago
Posts: 70
Quote from Dark_Sage
That's not what I was going for at all, kid.
The only gender-specific part of my post dealt with my personal beliefs, and I'm a guy so it was kind of necessary to have the gender defined.
Thanks for the condescension, but I was not entirely sure what your statement was trying to get at and was attempting to ask for clarification more so than anything else. The wording, particularly the "some guy's leftovers" bit, was rather misleading.
18 years ago
Posts: 92
well as i always do i skipped all the other "bullshit" other people said and am directly answering the question because im a self consumed asshole(brutally honest(murmurs:even to himself))
i agree, guys do have this unfair edge over women but in my opinion it all goes back to the exact act of intercourse (getting to the part why i put this in spoilers) since men have external "appendages" our role since the beginning of....sex is to give while women's are to take and that is going to be perrenially or unless we evolve so in saying this you have to keep in min that and guy could be sticking his dick in the same place his best friends was last night NOT COOl!! if thats not a good enough scenario say you dive straight into a pool of that 200 other people just took a massive piss in i guess we just cant help but be a little digusted. Ok my bad you girls clean but i guess the thought is too much to take, and girls if that doesnt some it up then either 1. your a german fetish freak who pissing on people sound like a good idea or 2. i cant see you understanding this concept anytime soon
bubye

18 years ago
Posts: 6
This looks like a loaded issue on itself already.

18 years ago
Posts: 323
You know it might sound odd but I think a prostitute > a gir/boyl that sleeps around just because. I mean can you really blame her for being an entrepenuer? At least she's paid to be a slut the other's doing it because their just you know a whore. :/ Also, my calling people whore's doesn't discriminate... usually.
Personal prefrerence... you know I'd prefer a virgin because I am a virgin. Of course I don't plan on having sex until I get married... So i'd prefer my husband was but I won't stone if he's not.
I have a two questions.
What age do you think it's okay to start having sex?
Why do alot of people think it's impossible for people to stay virgins until they're married?
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18 years ago
Posts: 70
I really dont care if the girl sleeps around with other guys in the pass. If i am truly liking a girl i will ask 3 question...
1: name
2: Age
3: Do you have a STD
3/4: O so you dont have a STD show me your test papers.
prelude4: If you pass these question your good for this question.
18 years ago
Posts: 278
Quote from kawaiiairbender
What age do you think it's okay to start having sex?
Puberty. Fuck societal norms. Nature set puberty as the standard.
Why do alot of people think it's impossible for people to stay virgins until they're married?
Because people are stupid.