family, friends or love?

18 years ago
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personally, i think friends are more important than both family and love.
more than family- bcuz you cant choose your relatives, but friends you choose yourself, and more than love bcuz u can always have a change of heart, but in most cases u stay with your friends forever.
what do you guys think?
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18 years ago
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Know this....people in their mind, has a clear distinction between friends and family. Even with the best friends, 'friends' will always remain as a certain kind of stranger, and 'family' is always a blood related family.
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18 years ago
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Quote from ares6
Know this....people in their mind, has a clear distinction between friends and family. Even with the best friends, 'friends' will always remain as a certain kind of stranger, and 'family' is always a blood related family.
I agree 😃 There's a certain kind of connection that I have with my siblings that is pretty much impossible to have with someone outside my family.
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18 years ago
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None of the above. Mostly because I don't believe in friends, but acquaintances. I don't trust anyone enough to open up to them completely. But If I did then the person would be in the friends category most likely.
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18 years ago
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I love my friends as family, but I still consider my parents the most important people in my life.
Love? pft... 🤣
18 years ago
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I´d say family simply because everything I am is thanks to my family^^
I love em...moreover I see my best friends as family members as I´ve known em since I was a kid....
Why I didn´t vote for love? because if you break up it ´s hard but you get over it quite soon while i couldn´t bear living without my family.
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edit: @ Meta- that´s really sad.....friends help you to keep going in this harsh world

18 years ago
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Quote from ares6
Know this....people in their mind, has a clear distinction between friends and family. Even with the best friends, 'friends' will always remain as a certain kind of stranger, and 'family' is always a blood related family.
is that so? well let me tell you that there are situations where a family doesnt give a damn about a person, ant his friends r his only support.
blood relation doesnt mean youll like a person, and in alot of cases your closer to your friends than to your family.
btw, ur the one to chose if your friends will stay strangers to you.
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18 years ago
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Quote from ares6
Know this....people in their mind, has a clear distinction between friends and family. Even with the best friends, 'friends' will always remain as a certain kind of stranger, and 'family' is always a blood related family.
is that so? well let me tell you that there are situations where a family doesnt give a damn about a person, ant his friends r his only support.
blood relation doesnt mean youll like a person, and in alot of cases your closer to your friends than to your family.
btw, ur the one to chose if your friends will stay strangers to you.
Lunch lady.....you're mistaken. I'm talking about Normal people....you're abnormal......your judgement is clouded and biased by your own bad experience with family....
Ever had an argument with a friend who said "It's none of your business, You're not my mother[or whatever other relative"
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18 years ago
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Quote from ares6
Know this....people in their mind, has a clear distinction between friends and family. Even with the best friends, 'friends' will always remain as a certain kind of stranger, and 'family' is always a blood related family.
is that so? well let me tell you that there are situations where a family doesnt give a damn about a person, ant his friends r his only support.
blood relation doesnt mean youll like a person, and in alot of cases your closer to your friends than to your family.
btw, ur the one to chose if your friends will stay strangers to you.Lunch lady.....you're mistaken. I'm talking about Normal people....you're abnormal......your judgement is clouded and biased by your own bad experience with family....
why my dear chomper, i believe its the fact that im not the only one wih such experiences proves my point perfectly 🤣
"Ever had an argument with a friend who said "It's none of your business, You're not my mother[or whatever other relative""
sure, when i was FIVE.
good friends trust eachother.
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18 years ago
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The problem bout friends is that you almost never know who your true friends are until something drastical happens......that´s when you see whose your friend for life!
At least that´s how it´s been for me. And that´s the reason I thank god everyday for letting me meet those persons
Sounds kinda exaggerated but hey that´s how it is
back to topic : so you see friends are friggin important as they can truly become your family!!
18 years ago
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..there seems to be alot of LOVE threads lately (if u know what i mean),,
anyway, i'll choose family coz i love my family 🙂

18 years ago
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Quote from Fizzle
The problem bout friends is that you almost never know who your true friends are until something drastical happens......that´s when you see whose your friend for life!
At least that´s how it´s been for me. And that´s the reason I thank god everyday for letting me meet those persons
Sounds kinda exaggerated but hey that´s how it isback to topic : so you see friends are friggin important as they can truly become your family!!
Ok see, friends become your family when your relationship with your family is poor. Thus you are contrasting between these two relationships. Also, in your mind, you also believe that because a friend isn't really a family member, you can talk freely with them about anything. And you will feel more closer to your friends than family. I'm going to call you lunch lady just to piss you off.
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18 years ago
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The problem bout friends is that you almost never know who your true friends are until something drastical happens......that´s when you see whose your friend for life!
At least that´s how it´s been for me. And that´s the reason I thank god everyday for letting me meet those persons
Sounds kinda exaggerated but hey that´s how it isback to topic : so you see friends are friggin important as they can truly become your family!!
Ok see, friends become your family when your relationship with your family is poor. Thus you are contrasting between these two relationships. Also, in your mind, you also believe that because a friend isn't really a family member, you can talk freely with them about anything. And you will feel more closer to your friends than family. I'm going to call you lunch lady just to piss you off.
chompy-chomp dear~♥ u call EVERYONE lunch lady 🤣
anyways it seems like u dont have much good friends if you think that way....
family will always try to change to what they want you to be... guess it worked great in your case... friends usually wont expect you to change.
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18 years ago
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not exactly...it can be the other way around too
i guess it depends on ur relationship between ur family, friends n lovers