Does anyone know of any series where the center of the harem, reverse harem, or love triangle actually enjoys it?

Anyone here ever play Tales of Symphonia? Remember Zelos? Now imagine him having a harem. That is what I mean.

A few things before you suggest anything:
1-The center of it all can't be ugly.
2-They can't be dense.
3-They can't be wimpy, pathetic, or spineless.
4- No School Days. I mean that in every way imaginable.

This seems to be close but I havent read it so I'm not sure:
Iono-sama Fanatics

In a twisted way I'd say Ai Kora

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Someone like Ranmaru from Perfect Girl Evolution ?

The only thing that comes to mind is Negi from mahou sensei negima but he doesn't enjoy it in a sexual way, more of a "they're all my friends and they're in love with me" way.

If you're looking for manga where the guy is enjoying the girls throwing themselves at him you'd have better luck with hentai. I'm pretty sure one of the key elements in Harem manga is that the main character resists and is "too kind to reject anyone".

Another one that MIGHT apply to what you're looking for is kissxsis, the guy is reluctant and resists but often gives into the whims of the girls.

Feed your head.

Yeah, I've to agree with darknova.
Your first three points are basically describing in reverse the standard harem male lead. 😀
I'm gonna add Mx0, because IMHO it was going in that direction (even if he was a little dense), but it got canceled, so...

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Maybe to an extent it could be, Sekirei though the lead seems more to hesitantly enjoy the girls around him.

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Thanks guys. I figured this would be difficult. I'll check out Ai Kora though. 😳 It sounds like it could be funny.