Yes I know this might be a hard request, I mean a harem that doesn't involve a spineless male lead!? well yeah I'm looking for all the ones you know that don't have your typical ecchi/harem lead.

Please no shoujo/jousei/etc

School Days

Basilisk has a kinda haremy triangle, but it's not the focus of the story.

Kurenai is also a good one to look at.

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If you haven't read this you probably should. The male lead is crazy.

School Days might be good too (see above post)

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It's really a hard request 😐

I don't know if it could fit, Mahou Sensei Negima!... for his age Negi is not so spineless 😀
Maybe also School Rumble, at least it's not your typical harem.
And if you can consider about watching an anime, I'll suggest you Kimi ga nozomu eien.

And I have to agree with x0mbiec0rp about Ai Kora.

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You could try Rosario+Vampire

Story wise the manga isn't great, but the artwork later on is beautiful.

Also the male lead does have a bit of a wimpy side to him but at the same time he does kick ass

Note R+V is a real long shot for what you're after.

I also recommend Ai Kora

The world would be a bleak place without manga.

I vote School Days. After seeing how annoying Makoto is, spineless male leads won't seem so bad.

This is easy.

AIKI
Airgear
Ai Kora
Mahou Sensei Negima(starting from half of volume 3)
Open Sesame
Ai Yori Aoshi
Ashita no Yoichi
Ayu Mayu
Nagasarete Airantou
Shina Dark
To-LOVE-Ru
Unbalance x Unbalance
Mx0
Rosario+Vampire(after chapter 9)
IO
Suzuka
Mai-Hime
Mai-Otome
Akuma Jiten

Well, that's all.

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I am not sure if this counts but Ranma 1/2. Sure Ranma may be a bit unsure around the Ladies But he kicks ass, and hates being treated like a girl, (even when he turns into one).

try out watashi no messiah-sama is good

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okay lets see ...

Kage Kara Mamoru (ninja's are always cool)
Magikano (he's not spineless, just oblivious)
Ai Yori Aoshi (well, at least he isn't a loser)
Utawarerumono (although i don't know if anyone is scanning this one, might have to stick with watching the anime)
Open Sesame
Tenchi Muyo!

that's all i can think of for now

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Highschool of the dead
Mx0
Lunar_Legend_Tsukihime
Psychic Academy
Seto no Hanayome

Those are some of the best harem mangas with GAR leads. ENJOY 🤣

OMG! GTO, why has no one mentioned this? I am disapointed. Its not that harem, he only has 2 girls really after him, but it sure is echi. Onizuka is definitely not a spineless homosexual.

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Ranma 1/2 Definitely counts! It is both harem and reverse harem. Ranma has at least four girls after him and Akane and Shampoo have a list too.

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I am not sure if this counts but Ranma 1/2. Sure Ranma may be a bit unsure around the Ladies But he kicks ass, and hates being treated like a girl, (even when he turns into one).