For me personally I'm fine with it. I'm not the kind of person that expects people to go out of their way like that to impress me. Plus it's easier on the ladies if they don't have to worry about doing stuff like that.


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Some guys like girls better with a more natural look. In my opinion make-up can easily look ugly on young girls (15-25), and it's still easy to overuse even on older women.

Depends on the girl. People who are fit are usually pretty good looking straight out of bed.

Is it really hard for guys to approach girls to start the conversation? Especially if she is shy/awkward? How many times do you guys actually do the approaching or expect the girl to?

Oh, and what do you guys think when you make eye contact with a girl for a while only for her to look away last, a bit embarrassed, and make no effort to approach?


edit;; oh yeah, I would love to hear opinions on cute vs elegant vs sexy vs tomboy esque, etc?

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wow, this topic really had gotten interesting. this may be the last post on this topic, but i have a confession: even at 18, i thought sex was disgusting, germ-filled, indecent, and reminded me too much of animals. Why do two people have to "go to the next level?" it made no sense, it sounded like just a result of peer pressure and social norms, and i kind of found it repulsive.

then i found someone i cared about enough to take the risk despite my aversion. to please them, not me. and, now, i could be said to be an addict. yea, definitely caught me off guard.

but i've looked up info on celibacy, too. i once thought of my desire to be akin to addiction, so i thought of managing it and one way people do that with real addictions is to "quit cold turkey," right? what i found is several articles and blogs (none of which i saved the links for--sorry) about people who tried going celibate either for long periods of time (decade or more) or short periods of time (6 months or so) and married couples who were sexless but in love.

so to each their own and have at or don't. some people feel far more confident, self aware, and unrestrained being single/celibate/Asexual. but i highly suggest not just jumping in for curiosity's sake. you can. it just seems like so much could go wrong there..... ok! cheers! hope i gave your brain something to munch on.




I think I will ask a couple questions of my own for the guys.

How often do you guys actually enjoy sex? every time? do you ever fake?
Is anyone here not the sex-crazed maniac society makes men out to be?
the way i see "most" men is that sex is always somewhere on the brain, even the really civil ones. and even the non-crazed would choose intercourse 3-4 times a week if they could (and if they aren't working 60 hours a week or something energy-absorbing like that).

If you're more of the intercourse-once-every-other-month kind of guy [or less], how do you deal?


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For me personally I've had intercourse maybe about a handful of times in my life. Personally I can't say I enjoyed any of those times. They were one night stands between 2 people just to get a fix after being lonely. I'll admit I felt bad about it afterwards. I felt dirty and had low self esteem after. Like I was unsatisfying to my partner and wasn't any good at it.

I wouldn't say I'm sex crazed. I have urges like a lot of people do but don't think about it all the time.


I fall in the intercourse once every couple of years category. I guess I deal by not knowing any better. It's just something that I don't have an opportunity to engage in very often so I don't really think about it too much. I take care of my own needs as do a lot of guys but I admit it would be great to have someone in my life I cared about to share intimate moments with.



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Question for Female...

Uhm, majority of females know that males have R-18 materials in our devices(phone, laptops, etc) right, atleast that’s my case with my female friends....

So my female friends deliberately just oh so love searching/messing with my stuffs(phones, etc) just so they could find my porns, they already know that I have some, they just want to see me panic or something..
That’s why I had to hide my porns at some point, DEEP, very very deep, inside a folder that is within another folder within another folder within another folder X10, its just crazy.., I also had to hide the gallery and videos....

But now, I deleted all my porns(except hentais), and if I want to watch, it’d be online...
So I just let em do as they please, look who’ll panic now

Its not that I hate it, it just proves that we’re close friends or something, but whenever I’ll ask them why, they just wouldn’t give me an honest to goodness straight answer...

So, do females just like it when the opposite gender panics of somesort??

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Hm, I really like teasing my male friends (younger ones), I find it very cute and funny how they panic over little things, maybe because it is a side they don't show so often. But I don't really try to look into their phones, because then they will ask for mine. haha

But, specially for porn, it must be funny to see your reaction while trying to hide it... Like "ohh, you are carrying these around, perv!! <:" or something... So I guess your friends find it funny or cute how you overreact to this situation?

Thanks for replying...

Tis never occurred to me before, if they are messing with my phone, then it also gives me the right to mess with their’s, right??

Uhm, sorry, I forgot to mention my main concern, about them finding my stash isn’t as important as this:,

I don’t really mind them borrowing my phone, messing, reading messages(they’re my close friends) and finding my porns(it doesn’t really change anything even if they did find it, they already know that I have), but at the very least, do it in a proper place and time, not while we’re inside the class and when the prof is lecturing, it might get confiscated and the very last thing that I want is my family finding about it...

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Stimulating the penis (or prostate gland) will reflexively cause erection and ejaculation, but this is unrelated what goes on inside the head. So, if the sex is bad, ejaculation will not feel different from pissing. Yes, it can be faked.


It probably seems like that from a woman's perspective. A (good looking) female's presence is arousing for a man (to some degree), so men will flirt around girls if the have the chance. But they mostly do it to simply kill time, without ulterior motive. My male co-workers regularly flirt with the old office ladies, it's not like the want to bed them Btw some of my female co-workers REALLY perverted, they tell dirty jokes and try to get me read one of their smut (erotic) novels the carry around.


I would do it every day, if it feels good, why not? You admitted, you became an addict. If one has sex drive, the person can get aroused and enjoy sex. I you don't have it, you can't. Men have it, if they are in a good psychical condition. Women's sex drive peaks when they ovulate -> "once-every-other-month"? Men find ovulating women more attractive, subconsciously.

Yes, we do like it when guys panic because of us. It means that we can affect you and that you notice us.

P.S. We also watch porn. And as for me, I have some in my phone. You don't really have to panic. Though, I'd never blatantly looked for porn in a guy's gadget. Because it's embarassing. Almost as if you'rev telling the guy that you'te horny and you want to do it with him.

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Thanks to blueangel06661 for the stock!

Waaah, females are scary, haha

Hmmm, not so sure about that last part though, they might just wanna mess with me though, for the fun of it, haha..

Anyway, thanks for the answer.. ^^

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Men's ejaculation is not always enjoyable, so yes not every time


Perverted thought always come once in awhile, whether caused by really desire to have sex or just bored and out of other fun things to thought.

Though, one of my friend really has impressive mind control, he never thought of perverted stuffs except when he have to, which means when he's having sex. It's quite credible when I see his test result and the fact that his sexual orientation is also normal really amazed and scared me at the same time mmm...




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Why do you women feel the need to constantly rub up against me? I know I am the definition of a sex icon but think of my schedule. Driving to work is a mess when female cops constantly stop me. Women why are you so eager?

Why is the rape fantasy genre so popular? Is it the appeal of the character having any girl he wants, or the taboo nature of it, or what? Most of all I don't understand the appeal of tentacles...