hmm. . . well it's fun to think about stuff like this, put down kindness myself, but in all honesty, love isn't about features at all, it just kind of happens so. . . what's really important for me is just to feel connected to the girl, like a natural sense of belonging or something :S

Loyalty,
Kindness and
beauty,
the rest is bonus



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I'm a vet student and totally devoted to animals so at least an understanding of my desire to fill my house with animals is a necessity. Being able to hold a conversation, a modicm of intellect and trust are also essential. I plan to make my own money so I don't need a rich partner but won't tolerate him sponging off me so some ambition it also a must. Loyalty also needed and of course I must find him physically attractive but don't really care if no one else does. Of course my ideal guy would be drop dead gorgeous and either spanish or Italian in heritage. The guy must be tall enough for me to lean my head on his shoulder, not too tall or too small.

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The pen is mightier than the sword...and considerably easier to write with.

Kindness
Loyalty
A good sense of humor
Similar hobbies
Someone who loves animals/children
And of course, good looks.

That's what I want in a partner.

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I read so much mangas, I'm too lazy to watch anime!

Manga I'm loving ATM: Heart no Kuni no Alice

Must fit all of the following -
#1 Female.
#2 Extreme Wisdom.
#3 Above average Intellect.

The wisdom usually turns people into a very very interesting personality for me, plus they tend to be despised by those around them, = perfect for me. extremely naive people piss me off because when i argue with them i realize nothing i can say will change them because they are like religious-on-steroids.

female
wisdom is not very important, intelligence is
loyalty
like handball
I don't like TOO religious people
kind

- A good heart (i.e. kindness)

- A good mind (i.e. intellect and wisdom)

- Loyalty

- Humbleness (i.e. no arrogance)

Basically, someone who's my moral and intellectual equal or superior. I would like the other person to be someone I can really look up to; someone I can sometimes depend on and help me grow as a person.

Oh and they also have to be someone who will not ask me to give birth.

No Respect for Me and a Tendency to Abuse Me
16 votes (3.3%)



I'm not going to be picky, and since this is a poll, I'm going to pick Loyalty. Even if they don't have the rest, that'd be the one. Someone that will put up with everything and anything I do (and vice versa) and will never leave me. There's nothing better than having the security of always having someone there for you always.



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Loyalty, beauty, unique style and beauty.

My ultimate guy would be very intelligent, but not arrogant as a result. This is very difficult to find. I know; I try all the time.

I don't really have anything else specific. There are definitely some no-no's, though. Close-mindedness and heavy religious beliefs are things I can't deal with. I don't mind religion, but it's something I don't want in my life, so obviously I don't want any significant other involving me in it.

I chose loyalty, too. Because without trust, you can't have love. Loyalty is quite a big ask for a guy.. especially after say, 20 years of marriage. It's so easy to get bored of each other and just succumb to cheating. So if he's still loyal through thick and thin, you know you have a keeper.

I know it might not be a choice for many but for me, the choice I was looking for is someone who loves me or rather one who is capable of loving someone else...I have seen many people in the world with qualities that I would like but the feeling was never mutual.. so above all, I am looking for that, but maybe on teh first impression, its kindness to people, tolerance and understanding...in other sense, not an immature person..and neither too overtly mature person..damn, I think like a woman..

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that is actually quite misleading <_<"... if you love someone, you shouldn't trust them, if you trust someone then you are ignoring them (not caring), if you doubt them you are paying attention (caring)

Wisdom.

Yeah, a mind.

I said 'sense of humor', though obviously I would've chosen several items on the list if it were multiple choice. One of the things that arawn and I like about each other is our matching sense of humor. =)

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If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.

From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."