The only time I've ever even hinted to someone that I like them was when I had a little crush in middle school and he had heard a rumor that I liked him. I simply said that rumors aren't always wrong and walked away. xD He wrote a letter later asking if I really liked him, but I don't think I replied. I can't remember now.

I asked a boy that I really liked to a dance once, but I knew he wasn't going and my friend dared me to do it. Other than that... nothing much. If I were to confess my love to someone, which is very hard to imagine, I'm sure I'd wait for the longest time and eventually just come out and say it (albeit very slowly and hesitantly, I'd assume). But then again, who knows. Never been in love, never wanted to confess. I wonder how it'd actually turn out.

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I'd do it the way my last boyfriend did it. He set up an elaborate, several-day mystery/scavenger hunt.

First, created a website with riddles, which had all sorts of clues embedded in it, there were clues all over the town where we lived... it was crazy. Finally, I had to go to this one location at night, where he was holding a glowing sign with my name on it. After I accepted, we went to a nighttime tea party where all of my friends were waiting for the news... with crumpets.

Seriously, I can't beat that by myself. It was really cute and lots of fun, which was just like our relationship.

My part of "confession" that time was hiding in a locked bathroom before the last location with my iPod, freaking out. Because I'm smooooth.

Same boat...... I can't ever show my emotions, unless I am really really comfortable around said person. I think I've only ever hugged my mom like 3 times in life...even as a little boy. It's not like I don't feel emotion, I feel love/hate/jealousy like crazy, but I always keep it under control and just brood about it.

So yeah, I rarely confess to anyone. I just think catch myself thinking about said person sometimes and try and shake if from my head. But when I have it has been the awkward "um.....uh....so I was....uh thinking........maybe you'd.....like to hang out sometime.....if your cool with it an all" and try not to make eye contact

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Little things like taking care of them and, well, loving them.
I don't just say "I love you" out of the blue - isn't that sort of weird?

...As for crushes, I'm blunt. "I like you"
The person I like probably knows that before I say it.

I was confessed to once with a random (I didn't know the guy well) "I love you" situation and it creeped me out a bit. Um, okay.

Ok, This was probably the funniest comment ever made on confessions

My first taught when seeing you speak about woods and etc, i felt this weird urge when i see lost people with weird rommantic visions like i want to smack them and say - hey no girl wants to go into a dark forest at night to sit and drink wine. (ok there are some night freaked upp people out there), untill the jacket part, never laught so freakin much for a comment.

My Love story

Well I had this girl on my mind for 3 years, still on my mind,
well I meet her on the buss to the city at 17:30 for a party, (she was probably 3 years older then me atleast, but that didn't matter, when i looked into her eyes i felt this heat needing to say something to her ask atleast for her names sit nexto her say something like Hey whats the time or some shit. but like a chicken shit i i'm with love i just sat behind her listning to her beautiful voice when she was talkin on the phone, but it all happen so fast i just looked into her eyes and i was stuck, and before i new it I sat behind her thinkin who the hell is this girl. short red haired with this omega sexy looking eyes. ( I love eyes )
3 years now i still don't know her and i've never meet her again.

but now days i just go with the old fashion way with - hey do you have some suger or wanna have s** neighbor?

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.....Why so obsessed with saying I love you? Here we don't do it really, we just kiss, it just happens nor the guy nor the girl have to force themselves to do it . But also it's always the guy that has to start the movement.
Ex: my actual girlfriend and I had our first kiss after she made a "speech" on Africa's problems
I suddenly looked at her face tought "" She's so beautiful..and responsible...and ?I love her?"" then I saw her grinning at me showing that she knew what I was thinking about, and that she approved it, then I kissed her. We both did our "jobs", I took initiative, she confirmed it. we kissed

I don't like the I love you thing too because there is something: Unless you have been friends for a really long time before the confession you DON'T love him/her. I you may think you do, but you don't. If you really love a girl you know that what you felt for her when you started dating pales in comparison to what you feel now

Last edited by Klapzi at 10:34 am, Feb 19 2011

now this is how I roll

On a more serious note definitely face to face, straight up.

My advice to teenage guys who want to confess to a girl: don't do it. Unless you're really attractive or popular or you are absolutely 100% sure that she loves you back, don't do it.
And also, be careful when you're trying to figure out if she likes you or not. Love tends to blind you from reality.

I only did it once and it scarred me for life. Never again.

In a sense, its the looks and not ur character that defines whether girls will like u ot not?

If I were a girl I would surely reject a guy that loses heart so easily

Last edited by Klapzi at 2:48 pm, Feb 19 2011

I just come and ask if they would want to go get coffee or get lunch sometime, I try to be really nonchalant about it, because most woman don't want a guy to just be like I LOVE YOU! Unless it is a girl that you have know for a long time and you have been good friends with or an on again off again lovers, and that is a different ballgame all together. I don't think that there will be a time when I tell someone I love them, its just a word i don't like to use and I think people use it way more then they should, but yeah I would never confess to a girl by telling her I love her.

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I agree. It's a stupid idea and only wimpy guys will find any advice in it. You'll just be living with regrets.

Oh my god! I have only technically liked 2 times but so far it's just an emotional rollercoaster!

Um.... I have a guy I have now.... Well in school I sit next to the guy I like for 3 class! 3!!! It is such a hassle but he is so cute and so nice! I think I am on the verge of yell to him "I love you!"

A week ago I yelled out "I!......" to him right when the bell rang and he just smiled at me, had no clue I saw talking to him and waved goodbye. I almosted died at that moment. My heart fell and I was so thankful my mouth shut up out of shear panick. Still pursuiting his heart but I think he has a new girlfriend.

Before in like 4th grade. I had a guy I thought like but the problem was I was competing against 2 other girls. I really thought I like him probably because he sympathized with me when I was really sad and befriended me. I knew him only about 8 month? But I really did "want"... is that a good word?.....it was more that I was enticed by him, he wasnt even that cute but just drew me in. After our art class as we we're walking out together I said quietly,"I really like you" He heard me and turned around in awe which was heart breaking because by his expression I new he was going to say "Oh, wow" which he did say. Since leave close by each other we walked home in silent. The next day we didnt even talk about it and by next we we had forgotten about it all together and he had a new girlfriend. He's more like my Oppa then boyfriend material.


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I've only liked a person twice, and if I remember correctly, I told one of them straight up, while the other one I just gave up.

Edit: I would tell them if I like them, but only if I think that the feelings are actually going to go somewhere, otherwise, I wouldn't bother.

Last edited by Yenoh at 11:19 pm, Feb 19 2011

I've never had to confess really,
They usually come up to me first, I also like it more when the guy takes initiative.
But then again, it usually just begins with a kiss, and then we're a couple.
I guess.
But I'd just say straight out, I love you, I'm definitely not too shy and i'm not afraid of getting rejected. If i do get rejected, so be it.

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