Box, you joke; however, you need to understand that things like that should not be spoken even in jest.


Now, ExzyruSxxx... think of it like this. You like a guy... no... you love him. You've known him all your life. You go up to him and ask him to go out with you. First he thinks it's like any other time the two of you have gone out, but you mean it as a romantic date. You tell him this. He looks at you like he's never done before, but you don't like it. It's a look of confusion... of pity... and maybe sadness, and he then says, "I don't like you that way."

What do you feel now ExzyruSxxx?

It's not gender exclusive, this friend-zone. Both women and men feel it's pain and loneliness.



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oh come on, thats not a rule. thousands of friends become couples on the first opportunity. or after any amount of time. some people even prefer that to the stressful dating routine: it allows you to feel safe while developing your feelings.

yes, but deep down that guy was never friend zoned... the guy was put in Wait...

Friend Zone is the fact that the other person will never acknowledge you as anything else than a friend.

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That's correct. muzwany didnt describe a "Guy meets Girl. They talk for a while. Girl classifies Guy as "friend". Guy is doomed to never be able to have a romantic relationship with Girl. The end." situation, she(must be a she to not understand this) described a "Guy meets Girl. They talk for a while. Girl classifies Guy as "potential mate". Guy will be allowed the chance to try to change the type of the relationship. the end?" situation.

I am just curious about this friend zone thing lol. So does that mean the following----girl meets boy. They become friends and are like friends for 2 or 3 years just say for like a long time. They both have other gfz and bfz during that time. Then boy starts to develop feelings for the girl and asks her out and she says yes. Does that mean that for the girl the guy was never in the friend zone for all those years even though she has had other boyfriends?

Also a question at the girls

What does it take to get YOU into the mood for sex? God its so difficult to get some from my gf these days lol.



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Because the guy/girl was never friend zoned, heck him/her having a couple of girlfriends/boyfriends before, actually might spike the interest in him/her

Not ask for sex... You don't just say LETS do it... is a process, you have to lower the inhibitions, until they want to get some as well.

She may be punishing you for being a sex crazed jerk... then again who isn't?

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The more you insist on sex, the less likely she'll give in.

Sometimes reverse psychology works, as in don't give her too much intimacy, and let her decide when she wants to touch/feel you up or whatever~ Might give surprising results. o.o;; I'm no expert though, haha. :'>

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A person I am attracted to, in a relationship with, who wants to have sex. Not too difficult.
Normally I'm just as agressive as my partner is.
If my partner attempts to get me 'into the mood', I find that a turn off sometimes. It only works if my they enjoy the situation as well.

Why is there this assumption that women don't ever want sex as much as men do? In my case that just isn't true.

Sometimes men will reject an invitation too.

So I have a question for the gentlemen:
What does it take to get YOU in the mood for sex?

With a girlfriend, etc.

ok, you may me right - i wasn't thinking about that situation. and i don't believe in the friend zone. in the girl-meets-boy-they-talk-for-a-while situation, the division is not between potential partners and never partners. it's between want-to-see-again and don't-want-to-see-again. both future friends and future lovers fall into the first category. based on that they'll get a chance to qualify themselves as a potential mate - or not.



one way is to let me sleep in. why do i always want sex on sundays? because i'm well-rested then!
another way is to flirt with me. boyfriends forget about that after a while. don't expect sex, try to win it!
seeing my sexy boyfriend. being eye-candy surely doesn't hurt.
alcohol. since i don't want anyone to resort to date rape, a nice dinner with a bottle of wine would be great!
one nice thing about alcohol is the way it makes me feel warm. many women have low blood pressure, and no blood in the clit means less awareness it exists. and cold rooms in winter are a definite turn-off to me. yep, warm temperature makes me feel hot
another body fact: a full bladder makes me horny. nothing perverted there, just pressure at the right place.
also... well, here's for perversion. sexy stories make me feel sexy, too. fanfiction, in my case, but i guess there are erotic story collections or something like that. porn works for some girls, too.

that's all i can think of so far~

On most cases that is completely false. Usually a girl(at least the ones I know, which is not a few) classifies a guy on the first minutes they meet. If she can't(unconsciously) decide in a few minutes it may take a few days or perhaps months. Once she finally classifies the guy as "friend" or "someone I would possibly date" the guys that are classified are friends will even have an incredibly hard time trying to get the girl to understand that he is romantically interested in her. I'm not even talking about getting a date, that should be nigh impossible, since when she figures out the guy is asking for a date she'll probably say something on the lines "oh... sorry.... I don't like you that way...."

For me, it totally depends on where I am in my cycle. My hormones are a big part of my sex drive. When I'm getting close to my period, I'd pretty much have sex constantly if I could. After my period ends, for about a week it plummets down to what feels like less than zero. It's not as much of an issue any more since I switched to an IUD, but it's still something I try to stay really in tune with. My horniness level is actually a pretty flawless indicator of when I'm going to have a period as an IUD makes mine not regular at all for me.

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For most women, the week before their period is when their sex drive is the highest (relative to that woman). Just remember not everyone has the same libido.

And I highly suggest FOREPLAY.

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lol i think you are one of the exceptions there. Generally women don't want sex as much as men. Anyways to answer your question depends really. When at the beginning like when you first start out with a girlfriend the whole thing feels kinda new and well anything will get me into the mood, some stimulation, wearing provocative clothing like mini mini skirts lol ohh i love the legs. After the first few times hmm watching some porn, again clothing is a big factor for me and so is dirty talking. Also lol try to figure out their masturbation pattern cos men don't really feel upto sex after having masturbated like an hour ago or something. Anyways to summarise to get me into the mood---dirty talking, provocative sexy clothing, ohhh stripping as well lol in a sexy way. There are so many ways for me. I am quite active sexually lol that fact is what my girlfriend sometimes uses to reign some control over me.


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men are hornier in the mornings all mornings

NOW, if I don't find you attractive... or something disturbing happened (saw a bloody accident) then the emotions may... and I say MAY get in the way... another reason to refuse sex, is if we feel guilty because we are betraying someone... overwork and stuff like that...

But for the most part we wouldn't refuse sex

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VERY true! My God, why do guys forget this part?

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