I usually like the Yaoi I read to of course have those scenes, if you know what I mean
It's just that the it always rushes through it and goes by way too fast. What I'm looking for are scenes that consist of lots of foreplay, kissing, nibbling and things like that. Savoring those spicy moments before the smex and then that not to end all too quickly either. When I say this I don't mean a smut, so if you could suggest some like this, I'd be grateful

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Oh, what a wonderful life it is to those who make it wonderful.

The sex scene in Koi to wa Yobenai had plenty of foreplay and conversation - I loved the fact that it seemed more natural and realistic (instead of blitzing through to the deed itself). I wish more BL was like this!

Cherry na Teacher has a hot foreplay in chapter 5.