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How often do you need to see/meet the person you're dating? (Provided you're not already living with them.)
Every goddamn second, sweetheart! \o/
Once a day would be nice.
Once every 2-3 days would be ideal.
Once a week, or just on weekends.
Once every 2 weeks.
Once a month.
Whenever I remember that people other than myself actually exist.
NEVER. I'd rather love someone from a (safe) distance...!
I don't date. :|
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Post #447167 - Reply to (#447164) by Astral100
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10:19 am, Feb 14 2011
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But still it gets me to think, wouldn't you want to spend as much time as possible with the person you really like?
Maybe people who only need to see their boyfriend/girlfriend once a week don't really like their partner all that much...


Question 1: Of course at the romantic stage, when you fall in love, you are just crazy about him/her. So naturally you want to meet with him/her a lot. So it makes sense when you think like that. From my pov, if i really want to see my partner everyday, just lived together or get married asap.
Question 2: Maybe yes maybe no.. we can't measure people's feeling, like.. if you only met occasionally with your partner means you have less feeling.

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I have never dated, and not planning to for a while. smile


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Post #447180 - Reply to (#447147) by Mamsmilk
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I am single.
I have no idea.
Maybe never if she is annoying. laugh
Yes, I am heterosexual.


You're never too sure if you don't try the other sex, Mammy.

I never said I hadn't. ;D


I actually read that as homosexual at first, but then I was let down when I read it again. no

Post #447182 - Reply to (#447167) by Akatsubaki
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Quote from Astral100
But still it gets me to think, wouldn't you want to spend as much time as possible with the person you really like?
Maybe people who only need to see their boyfriend/girlfriend once a week don't really like their partner all that much...


Question 1: Of course at the romantic stage, when you fall in love, you are just crazy about him/her. So naturally you want to meet with him/her a lot. So it makes sense when you think like that. From my pov, if i really want to see my partner everyday, just lived together or get married asap.
Question 2: Maybe yes maybe no.. we can't measure people's feeling, like.. if you only met occasionally with your partner means you have less feeling.

I disagree with the second answer. There are various reasons for not seeing your partner every day. Being as busy as I am, I am sometimes glad that I don't see my boyfriend every day.

For the record, my boyfriend drives over to see me every weekend and we talk online the other days of the week in the evenings when both of us are free. I'm a college student and he graduated and started working last year.

Post #447188 - Reply to (#447180) by UnknownUser
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I am single.
I have no idea.
Maybe never if she is annoying. laugh
Yes, I am heterosexual.


You're never too sure if you don't try the other sex, Mammy.

I never said I hadn't. ;D


I actually read that as homosexual at first, but then I was let down when I read it again. no



Since when did you come out of the closet? bigrazz
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asian minor. not allowed to date. no

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Post #447259 - Reply to (#447182) by Xeronia
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Quote from comel
Quote from Astral100
But still it gets me to think, wouldn't you want to spend as much time as possible with the person you really like?
Maybe people who only need to see their boyfriend/girlfriend once a week don't really like their partner all that much...


Question 1: Of course at the romantic stage, when you fall in love, you are just crazy about him/her. So naturally you want to meet with him/her a lot. So it makes sense when you think like that. From my pov, if i really want to see my partner everyday, just lived together or get married asap.
Question 2: Maybe yes maybe no.. we can't measure people's feeling, like.. if you only met occasionally with your partner means you have less feeling.

I disagree with the second answer. There are various reasons for not seeing your partner every day. Being as busy as I am, I am sometimes glad that I don't see my boyfriend every day.

same with my case ^^
May be yes because.. I'm glad i don't see him everyday, in fact it disturbed me if i must meet him everyday (on his request). so somehow i feel that i don't have strong feeling toward him.
May be no because.. i mean you can not measure people's feeling/relationship based on how many times a week you met with each other. They who saw each other occasionally (once a week) might have stronger bond than couples who met everyday. Commitment matter.


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Post #447260 - Reply to (#447178) by Harukko
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I have never dated, and not planning to for a while. smile



why are u not planing to do it?dating is good

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why are u not planing to do it?dating is good


lol, so is dating with a hot stranger in the middle of a dark ally. laugh

I see them everywhere in my neighborhood. They'll be like: "Hey kid, you wanna be my friend?" and I'm like: "uhhhh no?"

Jk lol

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I see my boyfriend pretty much everyday. The college campus is so small and all the freshmen live so close together that I'd have to make a conscious effort to avoid him in order not to see him. XD

Post #447329 - Reply to (#447126) by ElanorR
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I think seeing my guy on weekends would suffice. Personally, i hate clingy relationships as it reflects immaturity on someone's part.

Also, i think the last option should be "Can't get a date" and not "Don't date" cause i doubt if anyone would make a conscious effort to STAY single! ( At least not for too long?)

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I'm still waiting for my Shoujo Manga Miracle. Yes, that's what I call it. The handsome prince on a white horse that will sweep me off my feet with sparkles and shining bubbles.


I don't think guys like that exist. Its sad but usually, guys won't make a move unless they're sure of not getting rejected. That means even SUBTLE hints don't work most of the times. You need to drop "Da bomb" and confess but that also makes them enter a silly little pretentious world. Its sad, but chivalrous men are almost non-existent.
Or maybe its just me who thinks this is true(hope so)



Not conscious but unconscious effort to stay single, usually driven some hidden desire whether you had someone you liked already or has some trauma or bad experience in relationship. A girl (my friend) i know unconciously repel all effort other guy that likes her and want to date her. Why? She said she does that unconciously since she had a bad breakup a couple years back and it's not that she's unwilling to start a new one but it just happen (the repel thingy she did).

Concious effort are also possible, but mostly are by choice, cant say is it generally being done all around the world or not but, the proof? Me, since lately i choose not to date anyone even if i had a sure chance to date that girl. Why? It's personal.

That kind of guy does exist but rarely, how rare? very rare i'd say and most of this guy usually are not a handsome guy, not ugly but passable. Since handsome man are usually self centered, and men that are not blessed with the looks are usually much more better in attitude and nature (since we can't boast anything usually).
Sadly if you are looking a prince charming with all the quality of prince charming in a manga you might as well started cloning your own prince charming from your favourite guy in the world (Prince William + Richard Gere + Steven Seagall = blue blooded handsome prince with the charisma of Richard Gere and the badass factor of Steven Seagall anyone?)

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I only let myself fall for guys I know won't like me back. Safe distance, indeed.

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Haha LOL, lot's of people are talking about my 'prince' but when I say prince I don't mean a real one but you know, that amazing perfect dream guy wink A real prince would be too much for me, too much attention bigrazz

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It changes,
last week it was everyday, this week it was once, it's more whenever I have time.

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every 2-3 day or weekends smile

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