But a woman like that surely won't boss me around.
I won't obey even one order.

In this life, if you want something, you have to go after it. Waiting for anything to come to you only invites disappointment.

If I see someone I'm interested in, I just go for it.
not gonna wait til someone snatches him away before my eyes +__+


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aggreeeeeeeeee
you should take notes from this person and Azuka

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why because i am the president of the student council of course

but i think its part of our culture that girls have to wait but maybe sometime ill try doing that...
but the more that i think of it...
still no...

@mamsmilk- oh really??...

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The sweeter the apple, the higher the branch. The quieter the fart, the nastier the smell.
GUESS WHO??

Yes, really.
My submission comes if I grant it.

well mamsmilk...
nobody is asking for it...

and another follow up for what i had said earlier...
i believe that if a guy gets the girl easily, he will also dump her easily...
thats the sad way of the world...
and no i dont want to be clingy because i value self respect and dignity as a woman...

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The sweeter the apple, the higher the branch. The quieter the fart, the nastier the smell.
GUESS WHO??

That's because they have no clue
what they are missing.


Though, I wouldn't agree with that easy come easy go
rule with relationships. It's a lot easier to dump a
difficult girl (such as one that is absolutely passive,
hard to please, a dead fish in bed, demanding etc.)
than one that has working chemistry with you.

Last edited by Mamsmilk at 9:32 am, Aug 20 2009

well we two really have different comments on these things...
*sigh*
thank for sharing your point of view!!!

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Normally I'd be all for guy approaching the girl first, but women are hard to figure out sometimes.

thanks KennEH! !!!
at least somebody is siding with me...
and not ALL women are hard to figure out...

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The sweeter the apple, the higher the branch. The quieter the fart, the nastier the smell.
GUESS WHO??

Same to girls who do the same.

And you can only have the pony if you make sure you eat all of it. I don't want to see any left on your plate, young lady!


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I would heave to agree with otakuness. I would rather have a difficult girl. You value her more when you have to work that much harder to win her over in the first place.

On the other hand, mamsmilk is right about one thing. It is nice when a good balance can be found between you and you don't have too many problems. There is a such thing as a girl being more than she's worth.

And I always approach the girl first. It would hurt my pride otherwise. Means I lack initiative.

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I'll be your huckleberry~ ^.~

well i guess my first question would be- for what end result are you picking up these guys/girls?
are you looking for a boy/girlfriend, a lover, a one-night, a future husband/wife, a summer-fling, etc...
each situation has a different tatic, at least i think so. for example, if i'm picking up for a one-night then i don't have to put in as much time and consideration as with someone that i would possibly want for long-term. i've honestly experienced that the best long term relationships have been people to whom i was already friends with. so i guess if long term is your goal then the first step would be becoming friends. easy as pie *mmmm...pie*
and as far as who approaches - if there is someone i want, i approach. i like a good challenge as much as the next person and its always fun to get what you want. =^.^=

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How i pick up guy's or girl's?

I'm girl by the way then XD

Well... I will give two last time's pick up's...
In both time's i were in a bar...

First:
I saw really cute guy, so i got up my courage and goed to talk to him and asked him alot of guestion example. "Where are you from?" and then i talked about his buddy, that he is good in competition, then i asked him to dance and then again talked bla bla bla... Then gave him my phone number and said to call if he is interested.
After i left he sended me text message's apologising that he like's my friend.

Second:
I was ordering drink in a bar, so there was guy next to me, so i decided to get my time pass little faster while waiting, so i started to talk to him and talked about the usual stuff like school, then i ended up dancing with him too.
Gave him my phone number, but never called.

But have to say i'm pretty glad how it ended, cause i'm not ready for serious relationship, cause i noticed in my last relationship that i throwed my dream's away, so before serious relationship, i will make my dream's come true ^_^

And i haven't picked up a girl, cause the city where i live is small, so everyone would know and in other way i'm not sure am i bi or hetero... But would like to try to know.