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Oh, but you don't know him. ALL of his friends are girls. I'm just lucky enough to be his best friend because we share alot of common interests. ^^ I know he's not gay though because he can't stand males enough to possibly like them.

Anyways, I've been contemplating lately about telling him, but I'm still in self conflict. It's not that I'm afraid of whether or not he'll say yes, but rather how it'll affect our friendship if he doesn't say yes. I'm honestly just happy as long as he's happy, whether it's happy with me or happy with another. Genuinely, I do feel pangs of jealously. Alot. But I put up with them and supress them. Occasionally I need to preoccupy myself, but usually it's maintainable.

Next time you see him, tell him there is something you need to show him in th ebasement, then when he goes down there, push him down the staris and lock him in. Then you will have him all to yourself and you can keep the other girls away.

Or just ask him if you want to date, and then if he says yes you win XD, and if he says no, say "Just Kidding!" And point and laugh at him because he thought you were serious.T.T

After that, you can slip the roofies in his Ovaltine and have your way with him I would never do anything like any of those. And he would definitely know something's up with the second one, because doing something like that is completely against my nature. I'm not the type to joke around much, he does all the joking around XD ^^

Plus I don't know of any basements that lock. Our school doesn't have a basement o.o;;

well, i say just go for it. its better than having regrets

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[quote=kitty7krazy]Oh, but you don't know him. ALL of his friends are girls. I'm just lucky enough to be his best friend because we share alot of common interests. ^^ I know he's not gay though because he can't stand males enough to possibly like them.

Anyways, I've been contemplating lately about telling him, but I'm still in self conflict. It's not that I'm afraid of whether or not he'll say yes, but rather how it'll affect our friendship if he doesn't say yes. I'm honestly just happy as long as he's happy, whether it's happy with me or happy with another. Genuinely, I do feel pangs of jealously. Alot. But I put up with them and supress them. Occasionally I need to preoccupy myself, but usually it's maintainable.

Next time you see him, tell him there is something you need to show him in th ebasement, then when he goes down there, push him down the staris and lock him in. Then you will have him all to yourself and you can keep the other girls away.

Or just ask him if you want to date, and then if he says yes you win XD, and if he says no, say "Just Kidding!" And point and laugh at him because he thought you were serious.T.T

After that, you can slip the roofies in his Ovaltine and have your way with him I would never do anything like any of those. And he would definitely know something's up with the second one, because doing something like that is completely against my nature. I'm not the type to joke around much, he does all the joking around XD ^^

Plus I don't know of any basements that lock. Our school doesn't have a basement o.o;;

well, i say just go for it. its better than having regrets[/quote]But I don't regret. Like I said, as long as he's happy I'm happy. I needn't be selfish.

lol yeah you do because you're human and you only live once. 😛

I say go for it. And if you're really friends, it wouldn't be awkward afterwards, right?
I agree with Cheebs and Blakraven on the regrets thing.

PS: If you're going to go for it, keep us updated, haha.

Hm. This reminds me of a lot of threads on 4-ch.net...

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lol yeah you do because you're human and you only live once. 😛
Well if I do, I must supress it to the point where it's hidden in my subconscious then 😐 I get jelous, but I don't feel regret for not telling him, maybe because I would regret it more if I did tell him and things ended up badly.

@Lybi - I might. Like I said, I'm considering it. And I'll try to keep updated if it happens? Not sure what the life span of a thread is, and I don't know what I'd say if you all have moved on to a new thread. But if this thread still exists, and I do decide to confess, I'll post about it here.

You don't understand guys, apparently.

This is literally a win-win situation. Confess and if he says yes he goes out with you; if he says no he won't, but you'll still be friends. Guys don't walk on eggshells around girls they've rejected, just FYI.

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You don't understand guys, apparently.

This is literally a win-win situation. Confess and if he says yes he goes out with you; if he says no he won't, but you'll still be friends. Guys don't walk on eggshells around girls they've rejected, just FYI. But he was like that with this other girl that asked him out and got rejected. He didn't speak with her afterwards.

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You don't understand guys, apparently.

This is literally a win-win situation. Confess and if he says yes he goes out with you; if he says no he won't, but you'll still be friends. Guys don't walk on eggshells around girls they've rejected, just FYI. But he was like that with this other girl that asked him out and got rejected. He didn't speak with her afterwards.

maybe its because the girl won't speak to him either because she's too embarrassed.

just a breaker from kitty's problem for a bit (and I can see where she's coming from.. should try fishing for some responses to see if he's thinking along the same lines, before breaking out the rabu retter, perhaps?)

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You don't understand guys, apparently.

This is literally a win-win situation. Confess and if he says yes he goes out with you; if he says no he won't, but you'll still be friends. Guys don't walk on eggshells around girls they've rejected, just FYI. But he was like that with this other girl that asked him out and got rejected. He didn't speak with her afterwards.

maybe its because the girl won't speak to him either because she's too embarrassed. No, she tried to speak to him, but he didn't talk back.

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But he was like that with this other girl that asked him out and got rejected. He didn't speak with her afterwards.

That was obviously because he was still holding out for you.

Edit: Or he's really, really gay...and a douchebag on top of that. You should think about finding a different guy maybe.

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But he was like that with this other girl that asked him out and got rejected. He didn't speak with her afterwards.

That was obviously because he was still holding out for you.

Edit: Or he's really, really gay...and a douchebag on top of that. You should think about finding a different guy maybe.

I agree on both points. Did he reject her and tell you about it later? That could be a sign that he trusts you, plus there is a reason you are his best friend and he didn't date anyone else.

Does he wear abercrombie?

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[quote=Dark_Sage]You don't understand guys, apparently.

This is literally a win-win situation. Confess and if he says yes he goes out with you; if he says no he won't, but you'll still be friends. Guys don't walk on eggshells around girls they've rejected, just FYI. But he was like that with this other girl that asked him out and got rejected. He didn't speak with her afterwards.

maybe its because the girl won't speak to him either because she's too embarrassed. No, she tried to speak to him, but he didn't talk back.
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She should slap him and ask what his problem is then. 🤣

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But he was like that with this other girl that asked him out and got rejected. He didn't speak with her afterwards.

That was obviously because he was still holding out for you.

Edit: Or he's really, really gay...and a douchebag on top of that. You should think about finding a different guy maybe.

Whoah, way to armchair counsel with the only most rudimentary facts, Dr Phil 🙂

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Whoah, way to armchair counsel with the only most rudimentary facts, Dr Phil 🙂

Care to join me on the chair? <3

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