hmm... i don't know if this would be to obviouse
but i really don't like it when a guy over compliments
me .. it makes me really suspect his intentions or how
genuine he is acutally being



some is fine but dating chewbacca isn't what im looking
for lol
a lil chest hair nver hurt any1 but a whole carpet is akward...


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Girls (again): What is your threshold for men 'coming on too strong'? It's probably been asked before, but there is no way I'm looking through the entire thread to find out.

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Like sex pressure wise? If that's the case, it can get irritating... I personally prefer to have my space, and not be pressured into doing things... coming on too strong just makes us more nervous, and we will less likely be "ready" to say "yes". So give the chick some space.

Ah, that reminds me...

Another question from me. :] Actually, girls can answer this too. xD;

Okay, sorry this is an awkward question... but pretend I'm a guy. XD;

My hubby [boyfriend, but I always felt weird saying "boyfriend" so hubby is an inside joke... not that we're planning to get married or anything :lol:] and I haven't had sex in like... a month. >>; Normally we have it quite a few times a month. He was away for 2 months cause of college, and came back about a month ago, but we haven't had sex once. >_>; I'm pretty worried, since he's normally more forward... y'know, not the one to hold back. xD

Maybe I'm just being paranoid, but... I just don't know what to do? xP I don't want to be blunt [amazingly, I'm super blunt] and just straight up ask why he won't do that stuff anymore, so.. I don't know. We still do other kind of couple things, but never sexual things. ;[

If he found another chick while he was away... ;~~;

I feel super awkward asking this. xD

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Well maybe if you "hid" something sex related in a relatively obvious place, it would get him thinking that you might want to have sex with him. But you could always do what you said you didnt want to do and be blunt about it. It would be awkward, but I dont think he would care too much about that after about 15 seconds of thinking. Also, you dont really need to ask why he hasnt been having sex with you, just something to show that you want sex with him. I dont see any way to approach the question of why without entering an unnecessarily awkward situation.

Still, I think that tactfully setting up something related to sex so he stumbles on it would be the approach that would lead to the least awkwardness even if you do end up having to ask him, and it would probably would even better if you catch him in the process of finding it.


Oh, and I would doubt that he found another girl, since if that was the case, he would probably be trying to have sex with you considering you are still doing other couple type things.

Whoa, I'm not a horny person nor am I looking for sex... xD; I can control myself, thank-you-very-much. =[ It's just that since he's a man and all, I'm worried. Don't take it like I'm the one looking for it.

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Oh, and I would doubt that he found another girl, since if that was the case, he would probably be trying to have sex with you considering you are still doing other couple type things.[/quote]

Whatever do you mean? oO; Maybe it's just me, but I just can't comprehend that... ><;

And knowing him, he probably wouldn't. He's my brother's friend, so I've known him for a long-ass time. >_>; Of course, you never know, having to stay loyal for 2 months and no contact with the opposite gender... maybe I'm just being too paranoid? >_>

Whatever do you mean? oO; Maybe it's just me, but I just can't comprehend that... ><;

And knowing him, he probably wouldn't. He's my brother's friend, so I've known him for a long-ass time. >_>; Of course, you never know, having to stay loyal for 2 months and no contact with the opposite gender... maybe I'm just being too paranoid? >_>[/quote]
Well, maybe he had to increase his self loving to compensate for your absence, and has yet to return to his normal state. Or perhaps he got interested in some weird fetish. If he cheated on you, that doesn't explain what's going on, since he would have lost contact with "girl B" after returning (and therefore would be sleeping with you again if we're assuming he's a horny monkey boy who can't stay faithful for a measly two months). It's more likely something a lot less dramatic.

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Alright, here's the thing. Most relationship before college, no matter how sweet it seems now, will end. After all, we are all playing around. Now when you get to college, some may develop into a serious one. But beware, you might get screwed over. The ideal age for a serious relationship is really 25-32. By then you'll have a stable job and more mature. Guys aren't unfaithful, they are like little kids. Treat them like little kids who want to be treated like a man and you'll be fine.

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While thats not true for All people, its quite true for most people.

unless i thought that it would last a while(which normally i don't, since i have seen some of the best relationships fail for no reason), i don't give much into relationships anymore and i just mess around(not with the people themselves, since i normally cant stand people that do that) with things to use this time to get used to all of the things a relationship can bring and take.

Wait, wtf does this have to do with anything?!

all the posts lately have been too long x.X

yeah....that's why I used the word "MOST".
I don't like people. I prefer silence. No more nagging about how I'm heartless or cold or easily irritated.

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Umm he's probably the only guy I've ever been serious about O-o; And it's hard to gain my trust after all this love/lust/whatever the hell you wanna call it bullshit I've gone through the last 3 years. -_-;

Again, I'm not saying we're fit to last, but only the future can tell. Might as well try do the best that we can to make it work -w-;

I don't know....I always have the policy of if it doesn't work and you try and still doesn't work. Assuming you tried your best. Then you just give up.

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[quote=Dubby]Whoa, I'm not a horny person nor am I looking for sex... xD; I can control myself, thank-you-very-much. =[ It's just that since he's a man and all, I'm worried. Don't take it like I'm the one looking for it. [/quote]

maybe he's got some kind of infection...can't really comprehend this not wanting to have sex thing

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But just because most people fail at relationships before said age, doesn't mean EVERYONE does. =/

I'm not giving up. >__>; I have no reason to. I did once a year ago for stupid reasons, but we found out we were being idiots [besides, we were... strangely friends with benefits >_>;] and got back together. ;P

Anyways, back to my problem, yes? xD;

*bedob Whoa, never thought of that. ._.; You know, now I'm worried he's sick or hiding something. >__>; Nothing infection related... but something else?

That's a bad thing......most of the times you get STD from being 'open' to a lot of people....

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I never got an STD. I consider myself lucky then. ^__^; Not that I stopped using contraceptive methods...

And you're suggesting he's... being open to people? ;____;