the kind of shoujo manga im looking for is a romance one where the main chacter doesnt blush at every thing and acts stupid or a shoujo where a guy doesnt act bad and keeps randomly kissing the girl or tells her "she belongs to him" or something like that. i mean how many guys in real life do that and are successful? ideal shoujos ive read are Shitsuji-sama no Okiniiri and Beast Master

If you want something closer to 'true to life', how about Boku no Hatsukoi wo Kimi ni Sasagu? I don't know how it ends, but what I've seen of it fits.

Beauty Pop is great too.

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If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.

From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."

For the cool ice queen main chara, might I suggest these threads?:

http://www.mangaupdates.com/showtopic.php?tid=3177

http://www.mangaupdates.com/showtopic.php?tid=5130

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