No, even with family if you keep pushing it I think that you would reach a point where you won't be forgiven.
And if you look at the term literally, there is definitely a condition in which a person who loves you will stop. For example, you could brainwash a person who loves you into hating you so in the literal sense, there's no such thing as unconditional love
I believe it exists and I think there are extremely rare amount of people who are able to love unconditionally. People have a tendency to always want something from others and I can't see the point in that. Okay.. I can see the point in it, but I usually do things to other people just because I can and I want. It makes me feel good, but that just me I guess.
And I was thinking about that, yes there is a limit when people will break and stop loving. Of course. People tend to protect themselves at somepoint. But do people want to test how far can a friend, lover or family stretch, just because they want to test it? I don't think so.
So is it wrong to say that they don't love you unconditionally, just because you want to test how much they can endure? I don't think it's a fair to measure love, by testing how much pain you can inflict on others. I think the way to see if others love you unconditionally, is to show what one really is. People always try make themselves look better in different surroundings. But what if you don't pretend anything, just be who you really are. If they still love you, then I'd say it's unconditional love.
I have to admit that I'm not able to show my trueself to others, because I don't what it is yet. Yes, it sounds extremely strange but that's what I think. Though I hope that I'll find myself one day, see if people can still love me.
By the way, when I talk about love, I don't something that like that you to be in relationship with others. Love is such a large concept that I even I can't understand completely, yet. One day I will, I hope. I think if you can like a person as they are and not how they pretend to be, you can love them unconditionally.
Okay, enough about my ramblings. I hope people don't get too sleepy while reading this. I just love to think about anything philosophical or anything 'deep'. A bit too much maybe.
im on either. i DONT believe in it because yes,you're right,why would you waste everything for someone who doesn't love you? thats just pathetic and pitiful :/ but i DO believe in it,because you never know,the unconditional love might get somewhere :]
Unconditional Love is a Fantasy. It only exists in the Human Imagination. I real life, Love is difficult enough (or so to speak ), let alone an Unconditional one.
I haven't seen any example of Unconditional Love in my life and have never received any either. My Parents are too too practical to love me unconditionally.
I believe in unconditional love. The kind a mother has for her child. (I say this as a new mother) I'm not so sure about most fathers, they don't give birth, lol.
As for unconditional romantic love... People who claim to have this are either delusional or psychopaths or both.