lets say you are in a relationship and when that special person wants to kiss you, you reject her/him and tell him/her that you have never kissed anyone...

Ok, I can't deny it, for me it would be a HUGE turn on, I mean, Virginity is a pain in the ass, but complete inocence just feels right!!!

however, not everyone thinks like that.

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What I'm talking about is like, never kissing someone out of love. I'm not jealous of anyone who's had their first kiss already, but of people who have someone to kiss that they just feel so wonderful about.
(I don't know if what I'm saying makes sense)?


I don't like kissing my friends because A) They're the type to makes things like that very awkward and B) I'm not desperate. And a simple peck isn't what I'm talking about either. I'm talking about like hot, sexy making out.

I was just wondering if there was anyone out there who thought things like this.....apparently I'm the only one lol

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Even someone that's 30 & has already been married and far from being a virgin can feel jealous when seeing any couple in love. Common sense.

As for me, it depends on my mood. It's either "that's so cute," or "Get a damn room!" But either way, I'm rather sick than jealous. Though, there are rare times when I see an odd couple and I'm like "even them?" Of course this all applies in real life too, which is when it really hurts. Anything can happen in movies, books, etc., but when you see it in real life and you're craving to be in a relationship with someone...

I only get jealous when the couple have a relationship/bond that is obviously impossible in real life, and that's just the little kid inside of me getting sad, really. Same thing happens when I read fantasy.

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I have never felt jealous. Maybe that's because I am not a "romantic" type of person. My view on "love" is very cynical and I care more about many other things in life.

I just meant that not only virginal never been kissed teens thirst after love and envy those that have it. Is all. Good for you for having many other things in your life, you'd be driven crazy if love was #1.

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I mean it really depends what kind of person you are. It doesn't really matter how old you are and whether you are a virgin and have never been kissed.

Thinking that they are sweet is fine. But being jealous of fictional romance and relationships is not a good thing IMHO, no matter how you think of it.

That was my whole point

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i get jealous, especially when they are younger. Its like, why does this middle school girl get to get kissed but not me I know its fictional, but i cant really help it.

Nope not really. They have sex, yippe do-da for them. I do wish sometimes to have a boyfriend but even so I love my liberty and independence to throw it out for a guy. (I'm so selfish).

I think yaoi is hot but I don't yearn for sex. Instead I just pair up the characters up and that makes my lonely day

I feel sort of guilty, but I also thought that.

I am not at all in love-love mode right now, so I feel like "relationships are a pain..." I'll get over it soon enough.

But real relationships are not like yaoi neither is real sex... Please, please don't think that.

Don't get jealous but if the relationship is cute enough, of course I'm like "Ah I wish that was me~"

I don't get jealous while reading anything, save for Mysterious Girlfriend X. Not that I madly desire some sort of drool-bond relationship or anything, I just find Urabe's personality hits home on what I like in a gal...

Uh, no. Feeling jealous of that is just...not right.

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Lalala~

I feel like a pervert out of place here
Definitely not that innocent.

Uh, what if you just happen to practice one of those religions that says no physical intimacy (or touching) 'til marriage? Kissing, sex, and all that jazz would be nice eventually, but I'm not throwing my religious practices for some arbitrary deadline.


You sound like a bad shoujo smut hero. For the record, complete innocence comes with even more headaches then virginity does, though I think the guys who prey on either are total creeps.