I'd rather it be emotionally. It's easier to handle and talk about I guess. But either way, we'd break up

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the heaviness of the crime is on the same par with each other, I have thought about this for some time, but I really can't decide...
cheating is always wrong... there's a phrase that I always hold true, "one is enough while two aren't"
those who have cheated will always cheat
so to say bye is the best choice should my partner cheated on me

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There's no good way to cheat for me... one or the other is pretty much the same. because what makes a relationship is the emotion... and if she/he cheats emotionaly is because he doesnt get what or want more. the sexual part may be sexual frustration or just plain sickness but both have the same background Failure to be fair to his/her companion. I have cheated myself and it does haunt me forever. Now i feel like sometime i will be victim of the same action from my partner.

This for me. The relationship would no longer be something I'd be willing/capable of continuing in either case.

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Emotionally, at least she wouldn't dissapoint me as a person.

neither cuz its over if tht happens...but im a cynically type of person so ima get mine lol

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Hmm, this is a difficult question, especially since it has yet to happen to me, if we don't count girls I simply 'liked' without going out with, but I think I would hate it more if it were sexual, because then I would feel that she is soiled & easy. Plus, it would mean that she has no respect for me. I would then shun her despite her begging to get back together, which would hurt both her & me (due to guilt).

If it were merely emotional, however, it would mean that her body is still mine, but I would let her go to find her own happiness. I would still be hurt, but I would take it like a man & deal with it; nothing new here . . . And my search for the one would continue once again . . .

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I'm fine if they fall in love with someone else. I'll feel sorry for them since the situation is complicated for them and not me. If they want out it's only fair I let them. Like Johnny Depp said: "If you fall in love with two people, go for the second. Because if you really loved the first, you wouldn't have fallen for the second."

With sex I feel betrayed. With emotion they can't help it, but with their body they can.

without disrespect to caozhi, I find this saying to be very stupid, it feels like something only playboy and cheaters say. it's arrogant and annoying.
Say that he chooses the second, there's no assurance that he won't fall for the third one, and this will go on like unending cycle.


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@caozhi
Thats exactly what I thought..

I rather be emotionally like said.. they can't help, it happened, sux for me.. its alot more easier to rationalize..

now.. getting dick from some other guy is so much wrong, plus I aint taking care of no \a\non baby'

i think that when you are in love, having a person's heart means more than having their body. anyone can have a purely physical fling, but having a true emotional connection seems to be harder to find. that's why i think i could forgive if someone cheated on me and it was just a physical thing. But once your partner falls in love with someone else, i don't think there is a way to save the relationship.


I actually really love this quote. i don't think it's meant to be an excuse for cheaters to move from one person to the next over and over again. i think it's possible to fall in love with more than one person at a time. it doesn't mean that you're a huge douche bag or slut. but i do think it means that your first relationship probably isn't that strong and you should think about moving on.

im prefer not being cheated or cheating at all coz both way suck ass
i never understand why the hell people cheating their partner. i believe its better you stop entirely on relationship rather than have other people in your mind body or whatever beside your current partner

exactly, just as you said, people fall in love numerous times throughout their life, even when they're in relationship/spousal relationship. that's why I render the saying Because if you really loved the first, you wouldn't have fallen for the second. as bull and I can't agree with that.

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Sexually. Either way, it's over.

Gotcha. totally agree. i was just confused by you saying that only playboys and cheaters say this