I... Hate... PDAs...
Argh...
I mean, I dont want to see others going at it in public, so why would I want to?
Its just one of those things thats just a complete turn off.
I dont have a problem with kissing as long as I dont have an audience around me going "wooooooooot" the entire time. (been there done that)
done with mini rant

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Most annoying thing on a first date other than half the stuff that chaos answered is when the other person is eying someone else or not paying attention the whole time of the date. I have not experienced this or any of the other things chaos mentioned, but I can imagine that all of these would be pretty bad (especially not showing up at all).

You're an old wife or what?

1. I've always considered love as something which arises after knowing someone. So no, I don't go looking for it.

2. I usually cry now because of movies and books...But yeah, crying can have a cathartic effect. But I also cry because of happiness and those are the best obviously

3. It has happened to me that I was friendly and nice to someone that he misunderstood that there was really a "vibe" maybe So when he asked me out, I had to tell to him that I'm not really ready for it or something like that. Anyway, this is just based on my personal experience

4. Mmm...when I look at guy, it's the height and the dress style I guess.. Guys who look like they spend too much time in front of the mirror turn me off...I like it when guys dress simply yet look good even with a plain old tshirt.

But there's also the "voice test" for me..hehe. I like men who have a deep and warm voice.



Well, it's not that outer beauty doesn't count. It does certainly! It's the attraction that matters during the first moments anyway. It's the first thing that makes me want to know someone better. There has to be some substance to back up that beauty though. Beautiful people aren't immune from being boring

Inner beauty? mmm, inner beauty=good personality for me I guess. And yeah, inner beauty is more important and is what really counts in the long run.


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not very much.

maybe 2 or 3 days. not for than a week that is for sure.

To me, inner beauty includes not only personality that attracts me, but also manners, values and lifestyle, attitude towards looks (how well one takes care of their looks, body shape, skin, health and personal hygiene) and taste in clothing and hair that are similar to mine or acceptable to me. What is good or not good in terms of those factors really vary from person to person (for example, aurorae thinks guys spending too much time in front of mirror turns her off, while I don't mind at all), depending on their cultural backgrounds and upbringing. Beauty is not just skin deep. And I believe one won't know what they want and meet the type of partner they really want until both parties are fully mature.

And I think love happens not only after knowing someone, but also after you have been with that person for a while and think each other as a natural/irreplaceable part of each other's life (it must be mutual). What people are looking for are actually attraction and lust, which may or may not turn into love.

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I hate seeing PDA, so i try not to show it myself, aside from light kissing and hugging and holding hands.

Not much for perseverance, are you? Rather flighty and inconsistent, it seems. Of course, the most sensible solution to density is direct action. But instead, girls just drop guys.

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Me too! It's okay if you hug and hold hands even kiss in front of others but I find it disturbing when you go further than that. And yes, I can just ignore it but honestly I can't do say if a couple does it right in front of me

I for one don't like being too affectionate in public like I'll allow a kiss here or there but that's about it. I had a boyfriend who loved to kiss whenever we were in a crowd and I'd always move him away when it was too much. My friends always say I'm weird when I do so especially because I'm a girl, and apparently girls are suppose to allow such a thing...sorry it's just not my thing, I find that rude somehow or maybe it's just because I get paranoid that my parents or a family member will see me and just taunt me with what they've seen. It happens when all your family lives in the same neighborhood as you...

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if i am giving him hints, they are not the small ones like trying to look into his eyes. so it is all his fault if he doesn't understand.

My boyfriend was really clingy and i like to have my own personal time to myself so that it the reason why we broke up

Okay I have two questions, and maybe something similar has been asked but oh well...

1- Why do guys insist that they are looking for a serious relationship, something new, a girl who is willing to commit...but then when you give them a chance the next day or so, they are with someone else who is nothing like what they say they are and appear to be the easiest girl around? Um like wtf? Are we suppose to take you seriously when you make such a huge leap

2. Why is it that even though guys have girlfriends when they are walking down the street with said girlfriend they still look at other girls?--and I don't mean just a glance I mean actually checking them out? I'll be honest I do it too if there's a hot guy but when girls do it guys go all crazy and stuff and they get mad as if you're in the wrong when they do the same?!

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Hormones? Plain horny?
Maybe they think they can? I know some who do, some who don't.
I have a married relative who bluntly states how good looking (and other things) other women are. Next to his wife.
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I'd take a bet and say many guys just take sex and everything sexual less seriously than most girls.

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