I read something a while back where this boy meets a vampire who I think is some kind of count. The vampire either gives the boy a monocle or something. Eventually the boy is sold to that vampire.

This vampire lives with two very effeminate cousins and a butler/bodyguard who wears a military uniform (?). So basically the vampire is very emotionally insecure, constantly sexually/physically abuses the boy because of that insecurity but then this boy falls in love with the vampire. It's all pretty ridiculous really. In the end they show the boy as an adult and everyone lives happily ever after. the end

I might quite possibly be making a good portion of this up but if anyone even vaguely recognizes any of the sketchy details i've written please don't hesitate to offer suggestions.

Aigan Shounen

Also, everything you described is absolutely true. X)

thank you for the help. much appreciated