I'm rather new here so please bare with me.

I am looking for any and all mangas that breaks the cliche of the female being too much of a tusndere to/ abusive of/ or treats the male poorly (even when he did not deserve it and/or she is more powerful than he is) much like in many comedy genres that swerve into the drama and romantic fields as well or others as they may apply. Such as and preferably the male has had enough of the abuse from the female and picks up and leaves her (alone or for another female who treats him better). The shock makes the female to change her ways in a bid to win him back.

i hope this won't be too much of a stumper to find a few titles.

Hmmm Itadakimasu is the only manga I can think of that's kind've like that, but that is assuming you don't mind smut.
The situation you described happens in smaller cases throughout the series (strife is caused by the female being older, therefore tending to be mroe controlling and abusive). It is foremost a comedy.

________________

close, i have not read it yet, but what i get from the description is that the female is not getting back with the orignal male character. unless i'm completely wrong...

The female lead is divorced but the story focuses on her and a different guy, who she ends up with.

________________

well, that's not exactly what i had in mind Doki, but thanks none the less. i hope some one can think up a few in here. other wise i fear that the idea of the female lead truly being in the wrong and realizing it, but will right the wrong is a unthinkable idea in the printed Mangaka's mindset.

Well if u dont Mind Really sick (almost hentai) u kind of described Domina no do! i dont recommend it if u have a weak mind... you may fall prey to it.

PD. It does happends at one of the arcs...

hum, i didn't think of that one, (and yes i do read that one and i can deflect the worst of it) but the male lead is still a chew toy so far and he should stand up more for himself than he does (so far). but that is closer. any more ideas?

Have you tried S no Yuiitsu M no Zettai? It's a collection of oneshots. The first story is like that i think.

________________
“I thought also of another thing between us. Call it trust... That is one of its names. It is a very great thing. Though each of us alone is weak, having that we are strong, stronger than the powers of the dark.”

OK, I'll take a look at it if i can read it some where. any more?