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How often do you need to see/meet the person you're dating? (Provided you're not already living with them.)
Every goddamn second, sweetheart! \o/
Once a day would be nice.
Once every 2-3 days would be ideal.
Once a week, or just on weekends.
Once every 2 weeks.
Once a month.
Whenever I remember that people other than myself actually exist.
NEVER. I'd rather love someone from a (safe) distance...!
I don't date. :|
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12:21 pm, Feb 13 2011
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ahaha, maplegirl102, "Shoujo Manga Miracle!" xD
sometimes i feel that way too.. but i'm not waiting for a prince, rather, my "shoujo manga miracle" is a guy who i can respect and grow to love. >_<

Post #446952 - Reply to (#446931) by E-chan52
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12:22 pm, Feb 13 2011
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I'm a little bit of a rebel so if people push me to do something, I do the exact opposite.


Ironically, this could make you very easy to control for people that understand your personality.

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12:50 pm, Feb 13 2011
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Twice a week is good enough for me!

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7:20 pm, Feb 13 2011
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I have to say once a month.
Usually I get so caught up in something (Video game, work, school, side project) that I completely forget about my social life. My friends and even the people I like.

I guess that's why I don't have a boyfriend since I can't be there all the time.

The last guy I was almost dating actually freaked out after the summer when school came and I couldn't hang out with him everyday or even once a week. That was one of the reasons we never dated but it was too bad cause I really liked him.

I think I could deal with a long distance relationship too. I never feel the need to be in a relationship and will basically cut out that section of my life until I can be with the person again. Sometimes I get lonely but, meh.

Problem is there aren't many people who are like me and would get insecure.

tl;dr (my bad)

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Couple times a week. I can't stand clingy women. It's not really a conscious choice, but I find myself running the other direction whenever one tries to supplant every other part of my life with herself.


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So seriously, with my current situation and personality, I'm pretty sure I won't be dating for a really long time.

Besides, I'm only 19. I shouldn't have to worry about getting married.


Pretty much says it all for me. =) I've have friends that wanted to start dating, but they were the ones that went hysterical if I didn't talk to them every day. =\ I need to have at least two days that I don't HAVE to talk to anyone.

One of my girl friends has made it her mission to set me up with a boyfriend, but it gets a bit tiring. I'm the type that runs away when someone tries to force me with someone else. I enjoy just hanging out.

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I am single.
I have no idea.
Maybe never if she is annoying. laugh
Yes, I am heterosexual.

Jokes aside, I don't really need to see
a person any more than any friend of mine
even if I date the said person. Whenever I need
company. I can spend 1 day a week isolated by myself
without being distressed. I am, indeed, a relatively sociable entity,
at times to the point of annoyance.

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I think seeing my guy on weekends would suffice. Personally, i hate clingy relationships as it reflects immaturity on someone's part.

Also, i think the last option should be "Can't get a date" and not "Don't date" cause i doubt if anyone would make a conscious effort to STAY single! ( At least not for too long?)

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I'm still waiting for my Shoujo Manga Miracle. Yes, that's what I call it. The handsome prince on a white horse that will sweep me off my feet with sparkles and shining bubbles.


I don't think guys like that exist. Its sad but usually, guys won't make a move unless they're sure of not getting rejected. That means even SUBTLE hints don't work most of the times. You need to drop "Da bomb" and confess but that also makes them enter a silly little pretentious world. Its sad, but chivalrous men are almost non-existent.
Or maybe its just me who thinks this is true(hope so)


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6:26 am, Feb 14 2011
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Personally i think meeting that person on week ends is more than enough...frankly i like my "me" time and anymore than that i get claustrophobic in a relationship sense. haha~ does that make sense? XD guess i just have commitment issues... .___.

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7:32 am, Feb 14 2011
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Quote from Mamsmilk
I am single.
I have no idea.
Maybe never if she is annoying. laugh
Yes, I am heterosexual.

Jokes aside, I don't really need to see
a person any more than any friend of mine
even if I date the said person. Whenever I need
company. I can spend 1 day a week isolated by myself
without being distressed. I am, indeed, a relatively sociable entity,
at times to the point of annoyance.


You're never too sure if you don't try the other sex, Mammy.

As for the thread: I don't know... depends on how busy I am and how clingy the other person is.

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Quote from amaranthine
Quote from Mamsmilk
I am single.
I have no idea.
Maybe never if she is annoying. laugh
Yes, I am heterosexual.

Jokes aside, I don't really need to see
a person any more than any friend of mine
even if I date the said person. Whenever I need
company. I can spend 1 day a week isolated by myself
without being distressed. I am, indeed, a relatively sociable entity,
at times to the point of annoyance.


You're never too sure if you don't try the other sex, Mammy.

As for the thread: I don't know... depends on how busy I am and how clingy the other person is.

I never said I hadn't. ;D

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Quote from Mamsmilk
Quote from amaranthine
Quote from Mamsmilk
I am single.
I have no idea.
Maybe never if she is annoying. laugh
Yes, I am heterosexual.

You're never too sure if you don't try the other sex, Mammy.

I never said I hadn't. ;D

This is why I love you guys. laugh

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8:46 am, Feb 14 2011
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Quote from tartufo
Quote from Mamsmilk
Quote from amaranthine
Quote from Mamsmilk
I am single.
I have no idea.
Maybe never if she is annoying. laugh
Yes, I am heterosexual.

You're never too sure if you don't try the other sex, Mammy.

I never said I hadn't. ;D

This is why I love you guys. laugh

Mams comment is pure win biggrin

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9:23 am, Feb 14 2011
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Quote
I don't think guys like that exist. Its sad but usually, guys won't make a move unless they're sure of not getting rejected. That means even SUBTLE hints don't work most of the times. You need to drop "Da bomb" and confess but that also makes them enter a silly little pretentious world. Its sad, but chivalrous men are almost non-existent.
Or maybe its just me who thinks this is true


You think to much, man are easier than that.

If the guys likes you he will not get pretentious, he will just be happy

Edit: Here in brazil in the higher classes(yeah, even way of thinking here depends on how rich you are, also note that i belong to this higher class) we have something like "woman's pride", if the girl ask the guy out she will lose her pride, so they just don't. It's always up to us.(sadly)

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9:37 am, Feb 14 2011
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im dating rigth now biggrin


Due to work i only see him on weekends and it's not in all of them,if keep it up like this probably in no time i will be dumped cry

*BTW just as a curiosity i found out it was Valentine's Day 5minutes ago,got no calls from him-he was probably waiting for me to call him to arrange something to do

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9:57 am, Feb 14 2011
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A really interesting thread.

I am not dating right now, but when I did, I wanted to see my girl 2-3 times during a week, but she only could meet me on weekends as she was working. Back than I wasn't really sure we did properly "date", as my other friends pretty much were spending 5-6 days a week with their girlfriends.
Now this thread opened my eyes a little bit, as in there are many other people who only date on weekends...

But still it gets me to think, wouldn't you want to spend as much time as possible with the person you really like?
Maybe people who only need to see their boyfriend/girlfriend once a week don't really like their partner all that much...

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