This should be easy yes or no, but I added maybe just in case. Do you approve of having casual sex with someone. If so, have you ever done it? And what defines casual sex?
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I approve.
But i find it kinda boring.
Tho, if things get weird, ya don't normally gotta worry about what the other person will think later on.
so that's always a Plus.
But i find it kinda boring.
Tho, if things get weird, ya don't normally gotta worry about what the other person will think later on.
so that's always a Plus.
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Yay casual sex.
As long as it's consensual~ :3
But that doesn't mean go sex up anyone while you're in a committed relationship. Committed relationship means committed!
Edit: PS - Casual sex is just as sacred as normal sex :3
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As long as it's consensual~ :3
But that doesn't mean go sex up anyone while you're in a committed relationship. Committed relationship means committed!
Edit: PS - Casual sex is just as sacred as normal sex :3
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I do not approve of casual sex.
I could use some strong words here, but I'll abstain.
I could use some strong words here, but I'll abstain.
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As a cold, rational person, casual sex doesn't seem sensible to me. Though I've never found myself in the throws of lust. But socially, there isn't a very good reason for it...
I guess I'm fine with it, though. I don't mind other people engaging in it.
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I guess I'm fine with it, though. I don't mind other people engaging in it.
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I approve of it if you aren't already committed to someone.
To be honest, when I think of it, it's kind of stupid. It can be somewhat dangerous. You aren't always knowledgeable about your partner, and when it comes to things like that, your risk of contracting a disease does go up, and there is also the risk that one of the people you are sleeping with could be looking for something more than just a casual relationship.
But I don't know, maybe I am wrong.
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To be honest, when I think of it, it's kind of stupid. It can be somewhat dangerous. You aren't always knowledgeable about your partner, and when it comes to things like that, your risk of contracting a disease does go up, and there is also the risk that one of the people you are sleeping with could be looking for something more than just a casual relationship.
But I don't know, maybe I am wrong.
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What are the benefits of casual sex, anyway? Why not have a relationship?
You'd clearly be physically attracted to the person, and you're probably friends with the person as well. The idea that people are unwilling to date because they don't want to ruin a friendship, but are still willing to have sex, seems recklessly cautious to me.
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You'd clearly be physically attracted to the person, and you're probably friends with the person as well. The idea that people are unwilling to date because they don't want to ruin a friendship, but are still willing to have sex, seems recklessly cautious to me.
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What are the benefits of casual sex, anyway? Why not have a relationship?
You'd clearly be physically attracted to the person, and you're probably friends with the person as well. The idea that people are unwilling to date because they don't want to ruin a friendship, but are still willing to have sex, seems recklessly cautious to me.
You'd clearly be physically attracted to the person, and you're probably friends with the person as well. The idea that people are unwilling to date because they don't want to ruin a friendship, but are still willing to have sex, seems recklessly cautious to me.
There's often a lot of baggage and emotional stress that comes with a relationship, more so than just friendship. Casual sex doesn't have to be between friends, and even if they were between friends, what's wrong with wanting to make yourself and your friend feel good? XD
Edit: And why does emotional and physical need to go hand in hand?
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What are the benefits of casual sex, anyway? Why not have a relationship?
You'd clearly be physically attracted to the person, and you're probably friends with the person as well. The idea that people are unwilling to date because they don't want to ruin a friendship, but are still willing to have sex, seems recklessly cautious to me.
You'd clearly be physically attracted to the person, and you're probably friends with the person as well. The idea that people are unwilling to date because they don't want to ruin a friendship, but are still willing to have sex, seems recklessly cautious to me.
It seems stupid.
Now if were talking about spontaneous trysts, then that's a whole other can o worms.
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What are the benefits of casual sex, anyway? Why not have a relationship?
You'd clearly be physically attracted to the person, and you're probably friends with the person as well. The idea that people are unwilling to date because they don't want to ruin a friendship, but are still willing to have sex, seems recklessly cautious to me.
You'd clearly be physically attracted to the person, and you're probably friends with the person as well. The idea that people are unwilling to date because they don't want to ruin a friendship, but are still willing to have sex, seems recklessly cautious to me.
Casual sex doesn't have to be between two friends, it's sex just for sex. Now, if it was two friends, I don't quite understand why they wouldn't have a relationship, either.
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What are the benefits of casual sex, anyway? Why not have a relationship?
You'd clearly be physically attracted to the person, and you're probably friends with the person as well. The idea that people are unwilling to date because they don't want to ruin a friendship, but are still willing to have sex, seems recklessly cautious to me.
You'd clearly be physically attracted to the person, and you're probably friends with the person as well. The idea that people are unwilling to date because they don't want to ruin a friendship, but are still willing to have sex, seems recklessly cautious to me.
There's often a lot of baggage and emotional stress that comes with a relationship, more so than just friendship. Casual sex doesn't have to be between friends, and even if they were between friends, what's wrong with wanting to make yourself and your friend feel good? XD
Edit: And why does emotional and physical need to go hand in hand?
Well, I'm just saying that people who are physically responsive to each other and have a good, friendly rapport are optimal candidates for dating. Why not explore that option? I think one of the greatest reasons for the modern break down of marriage is that people don't understand the importance of actual friendship in a lovers relationship.
Why avoid an attempt at partnership because your afraid of emotional consequences? The only reason you'd fear losing this person is that you care about them, right?
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What are the benefits of casual sex, anyway? Why not have a relationship?
You'd clearly be physically attracted to the person, and you're probably friends with the person as well. The idea that people are unwilling to date because they don't want to ruin a friendship, but are still willing to have sex, seems recklessly cautious to me.
You'd clearly be physically attracted to the person, and you're probably friends with the person as well. The idea that people are unwilling to date because they don't want to ruin a friendship, but are still willing to have sex, seems recklessly cautious to me.
Casual sex doesn't have to be between two friends, it's sex just for sex. Now, if it was two friends, I don't quite understand why they wouldn't have a relationship, either.
If it's not sex with a friend, isn't that more likely, as ahoaho put it, a "spontaneous tryst" or in the vernacular something similar to a one night stand? I thought by casual sex something more akin to sex friends was implied.
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No, an intellectual relationship can help a physical. If I ever did with a friend, I'd probably become attached to that person.
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I find sex to be something for two people who truly love each other. Yes it sounds like the ultimate excuse for those people who can't find a girlfriend, but imho it seems the best. Casual sex between friends just seems wrong to me.
