I chose kindness.
my perfect guy would be tall and have blue eyes and dark hair too though.

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Similar hobbies.
That's not to say that they can't have their own hobbies- obviously. But having similar hobbies would give us something to talk about and we can both enjoy our time together. I'm usually attracted to guys with common interests, so ya. And seeing as I'm always up for trying different things this wouldn't limit our interests.

I would have chosen loyalty, but I have problems trusting people. XD I know people are capable of being loyal, but that wouldn't stop me from doubting them.

"No Respect for Me and a Tendency to Abuse Me"- 16 votes
O_o...

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Monkeys, always at your service.

nothing between her legs. lol

but seriously, i want her to be smart so that she actually understands me. itll be so boring talking to her if she always says, "uhhh... i dont get it"
and hopefully a sense of humor so that we can have a fun time together

Loyalty is the base; anything else is optional.

Though, I prefer my man to be 5ft 3, asian, megane, compassionate, smart, funny, and nice

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I´m a male and to it is Loyalty.

However im not looking for the usal type of partner since the only type of partnership i could see myself in would be master-servant relation ship (as the master), and she would have to be a real masochist (that is a must). still intellect is always wanted so that you can have interessting conversations

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If you want to succeed
Then you don't need Good Luck
You need the ability to overcome Bad Luck

Happines and Light needs a source to exist
Hatred fuels itself and Darkness exist where there is no Light


† Lightmare †

Honesty is the biggest for me. I have seen too many relationships destroyed by lies. My ex kissed another guy once, and she immediately told me that day. I was hurt that she did it, but it took a lot for her to tell me. I'm glad she told me and I didn't learn from someone else.

Though loyalty is a always nice. I knew a few girls who wanted to cheat on their bfs with me, but I know I would hate for them to do that to me, and I didn't want them to be whores.

@Daisukedesuyo
How tall are you?

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"This year, they should give the Nobel Peace Prize to the inventors of cancer and accidents, because research shows those are the main causes of disarmament."

4ft 10
I never have to worry about finding someone taller than me, but I don't like super tall guys. around 5"3 is the perfect height.

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Wait... so you want someone who can think for herself, so that you can then control her? Or you only want control during S&M scenes?

Servant/Slave doesn't necessarily mean masochist, either. Which did you intend? Slave or masochist or both?

You'd likely have to go to a club to find that kind of partner, anyway.

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If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.

From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."

I chose confidence. Even if you lack everything else, confidence makes up for it, and it makes things easier, plus it's sexy. But naturally confidence alone won't do, I find sense of humor and unique style equally important. Intellect is also essential.

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I'll hug your problems away.

So i would be considered Super tall?? I'm shorter than Azuka. I am a mere 5'6" and a half. Maybe almost a full 5'7". Even my little sister makes fun of me, she has like 1 cm over me. And she's 13.

You must be absolutely adorable. To me, short = cute. Just like glasses.

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"This year, they should give the Nobel Peace Prize to the inventors of cancer and accidents, because research shows those are the main causes of disarmament."

Guess what? I'm short AND I have glasses
And I'm asian, if that makes it better lol

Well 5'7" is the borderline. Anything more is just TOO tall for me.

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It does. I'm also asian. Well, half asian anyways. And I wear glasses. And I think I'm nice-ish. I let a homeless guy stay in my living room for a few months. And he was only a friend of a friend. I would like to consider myself smart as well. Funny, well that depends on the person.

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"This year, they should give the Nobel Peace Prize to the inventors of cancer and accidents, because research shows those are the main causes of disarmament."

I'm a girl and...

A guy with a good heart...
Because a lot of just nice guys more so than often get abused and used by others and aren't actually nice, just too weak to say "no".

Intellect... because stimulating conversation is important. If I'm going to spend the rest of my life with someone, it has to be someone I can spend hours endlessly chatting with. Also him having a creative and philosophical outlook on life would be a definite plus.

Someone who actually loves me more than pretty much anything in the world. The above is nice, but if they don't cherish me, I don't want them.

Ah, an ideal partner.
I love to type long paragraphs. :3

Loyalty would be great. I wouldn't know how to express how much I'd want loyalty without sounding possessive. I'll just emphasize that I really really like loyalty.

Humor. I love laughing, as well as making others laugh. I want a partner who would understand some of my dead-pan jokes. Vice versa. Humor is what I'm looking for 40% of the time.

Intellect. I want someone who is smart; someone who "gets it." As much as I love joking around, I occasionally enjoy deep conversations. In fact, it's what I think about too much in my mind. I'd love to share my view on what I'm thinking about. (without the other person falling asleep.) I want their opinions too.

Honesty, confidence, and similar hobbies are in the same percentage pie slice for me. :]

Honesty is awesome, since I do not like liars. But brute, blunt honesty hurts. It's good to be blunt, but not too much. At least ease it in!

A person with a low-self esteem irks me. It's fine if they don't have that much confidence, but constant self-put-downs and a super pessimistic attitude really ruins the mood. I like them to have confidence, just enough to be likable, but not over-the-top to come off as egotistic.

Lastly, similar hobbies is just the icing of this cake!

Ooo, the whole package! I'll definitely date you
But it's really not that hard to make me laugh. Just as long as you're not trying too hard(it's REALLY easy to tell), you can get me to spasm easily.

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