Quote from unusuallove
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Takumi loves Reira as a sister. It's so obvious-if he wanted her as a woman he could have had her a long time ago. he's not interested.
because he's not interested in her as a woman, though, she becomes a very important person in his life. though not someone he could ever want, and certainly not someone he could ever marry.
i think he does love hachi, and not just because i like that particular couple. when she gets mad at him, he gets upset, and he likes it when shes happy. he doesn't really care about the other women in his life that way.
plus he married her, even though she told him he didn't have to, and supported her decision to keep their baby. Trust me, he did not do that out of the goodness of his heart. he's not that kind of guy. if he didn't care about Hachi, he probably would have just left her to raise their baby by herself.
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Normally I'd say that Takumi and Hachi would have no chance at a good relationship, however i think in this case they might. they both obviously love each other, which is important. Takumi is a really bad husband to her, but she's realized this and she's considering a divorce.
that alone makes it about 50% more possible for them to have a happy life together. relationships don't work out if you just forget and forgive when someone (takumi) has hurt and cheated on you. relationships work out when a couple addresses the problems in their relationship and acknowledges them as problems. only then can they start moving towards having a good relationship.
However, even though I'm a fan of this couple and I think they have a chance, realistically I have to say they probably shouldn't be together. Hachi needs to leave him, date other people for awhile, and MAYBE come back when he's shaped up a bit. But that's a big maybe. I say this not as a fan, but as a woman. No girl should take the crap Hachi's been taking, baby or no.
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Takumi loves his children. It's as simple as that. And because he was abused/neglected, or whatever, he'll just want to protect them even more. in fact, with his relationship with hachi, that's the one thing he's got going for him. That he loves their children.
maybe that'll be enough to keep them together, but i doubt it. he's really gonna have to change if he wants to have a chance with her. and if i were him, i'd do it fast. i mean, she's still seeing nobu, and the worse he treats her, the more she's going to turn to nobu for . . . well, I'm not sure what for. For takumi's sake, hopefully nothing more than friendship.
Takumi loves Reira as a sister. It's so obvious-if he wanted her as a woman he could have had her a long time ago. he's not interested.
because he's not interested in her as a woman, though, she becomes a very important person in his life. though not someone he could ever want, and certainly not someone he could ever marry.
i think he does love hachi, and not just because i like that particular couple. when she gets mad at him, he gets upset, and he likes it when shes happy. he doesn't really care about the other women in his life that way.
plus he married her, even though she told him he didn't have to, and supported her decision to keep their baby. Trust me, he did not do that out of the goodness of his heart. he's not that kind of guy. if he didn't care about Hachi, he probably would have just left her to raise their baby by herself.
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Normally I'd say that Takumi and Hachi would have no chance at a good relationship, however i think in this case they might. they both obviously love each other, which is important. Takumi is a really bad husband to her, but she's realized this and she's considering a divorce.
that alone makes it about 50% more possible for them to have a happy life together. relationships don't work out if you just forget and forgive when someone (takumi) has hurt and cheated on you. relationships work out when a couple addresses the problems in their relationship and acknowledges them as problems. only then can they start moving towards having a good relationship.
However, even though I'm a fan of this couple and I think they have a chance, realistically I have to say they probably shouldn't be together. Hachi needs to leave him, date other people for awhile, and MAYBE come back when he's shaped up a bit. But that's a big maybe. I say this not as a fan, but as a woman. No girl should take the crap Hachi's been taking, baby or no.
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Takumi loves his children. It's as simple as that. And because he was abused/neglected, or whatever, he'll just want to protect them even more. in fact, with his relationship with hachi, that's the one thing he's got going for him. That he loves their children.
maybe that'll be enough to keep them together, but i doubt it. he's really gonna have to change if he wants to have a chance with her. and if i were him, i'd do it fast. i mean, she's still seeing nobu, and the worse he treats her, the more she's going to turn to nobu for . . . well, I'm not sure what for. For takumi's sake, hopefully nothing more than friendship.
I agree with you in most, if not all, of the things you said.
honestly when i read nana, and when it comes to hachi and takumi, my heart breaks every bit. I completely understand Hachi is flawed. But not as takumi, they've been together for long enough and nothing changed at all. Sometimes i think takumi underestimate Hachi's love for him.
I know that she bares a small bit of responsibility on why she is hurting so badly. She knew the man who she was going to marry.. and went on with it. But it isnt excusable for a married mother, taking care of herself and her belly all alone while the husband is on the other side supporting a girl, who to me is a complete homewrecker. I dont like takumi the way many people do. I dont hate him either. But my many reason to hate him is how he gets away with things and finds it completely nothing. Irregardless of who Reira is to him, staying with your wife atleast a little bit more than that girl is important. It's either you choose a relationship with the hachi through the child only, like not getting married at all or marry hachi and bullshit with her. Yes, there are sweet times but you cant compare it to the times where she is all alone.
All I wanna see atleast is for Hachi to leave him, atleast for a long while(seems like it already, mututal separation). If theyre ever going to end up together, and who knows.. i'd leave my mind open to it. since in real life, ive seen worse.. but yea, if theyre ever going to end up together, i hope takumi makes it up to her.. as in really stop his cheating ways, well.. we can see from the future that "maybe" he did right? since i have an understanding that marriage with CHILDREN, the children are the ones you have to be prioritizing, so for the sake of them, for now i understand why they need to be together. if hachi and takumi ever ends up together, i wish this time its for the right reasons! not for the sake of an obligation cos the family they created together the children they raised(whther its theirs or not),they WILL grow up, they have to start living for the two of them(takumi and hachi) at some point.
Hachi with Nobu, i dont mind it.. I dont care if Nobu is too good for her, in this manga or either in real life, neither does matter. If nobu can linger around longer til she realize what she really is feeling. who knows? but many doubt it, since as many fans had said, the mangaka is unpredictable. Hachi with nobu.. is kinda predictable to me.
takumi and hachi or nobu and hachi.. theyre both open possibilities, irreagrdless of any pain.. but there is another possibility possible.. neither of them.
i didnt particularly answered your questions in any way.. since unusuallove have MOSTLY the same opinion as i did. i jus added smething along,
Last edited by Crazyee. at 2:38 pm, Oct 23 2010