Quote from aikoaiko
...You feel better about yourself when you know you look good, so a little bit of make-up is not necessarily a bad thing. Beside...its not just the make-up. Its the clothes you choose to wear too. ...
i think most ppl feel the same way, and to me that's the whole origin of the problem. why do we feel better when looking "good" to begin with ? cause if what wasn't the case, all the problems would be solved, since i agree that it is a very dark side of society ( but then again are there even light ones?).
i really wonder why we are like that though. i know the evolutionary reasons for looks being important, but none of them make any sense to me if you consider the level of what they call civilization, that we have reached.
Quote from ShadowSakura
because the guys only flirt with good looking girls
and you are ok with that ? so you just give in and do whatever the "guys" want you to do ? why don't you just say screw them and wait for s/o that may not care ?