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womanly things are degrading for men
For most guys..it is. You guys might like this Madonna song (or at least the lyrics). It is basically saying how it is okay for a girl to act like a guy, but it is not okay for boys to behave like girls; because it is not okay to be a girl. So, in a way, homophobia might branch off of sexism..? Food for thought.
Madonna - What It Feels Like For A Girl
I agree about the sexism thing. (What it feels like for a girl popped into my head aswell.)
However, to say that Homophobia comes from sexism is simply not true. Lesbians experience just as much homophobia as gay men. So the concept that being a girl = bad, therefore being gay = bad doesn't work. By that logic masculine lesbians would be super popular because they act "like men", and that just isn't true in real life.
Lesbians experience just as much homophobia as gay guys? I'd say a degree less. Straight guys tend to think girl on girl is hot. So it's not like they fear or hate lesbians as often as they do for gays.