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7:56 pm, Apr 20 2011
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I'd rather be loved by everyone, hated by one person. Easily. I can fall in love again, but I couldn't bare it if my family hated me.

On a side note, it always bothers me when protagonists are willing to sacrifice their relatives for their romantic partners. Family comes first. Always.

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8:29 pm, Apr 20 2011
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I choose to be love by the one I love, and hated by everyone.

Because, when u love someone u want them to love u so badly u no longer see ur life as it is without them in it.

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8:38 pm, Apr 20 2011
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i would rather be loved by everyone. because the one i like changes every few weeks laugh

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I'd rather be loved by everyone.

I think that makes sense: if everyone loves you, and the person you love hates you, I think that it makes that person even more special/interesting. I would love him more! (I sound so creepy) laugh


I'll go with this, it's a good way of thinking! laugh

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I think I'd rather be loved by everyone,but hated by the one I love. I mean it's not like I'm capable of loving only 1 person, and being hated by everyone...just think about that for a few moments and try to imagine how you'd live like that.

Who would hire you? Would you mooch off your loved one?



The hiring process isn't supposed to be affected by things like if you like the person or not. At least corporations like Walmart or UPS wouldn't be that biased. And just because everyone hates you doesn't mean there has to be conflict. There is always a way around these things.

I would want to be loved by the one I love. If I really loved her, then she would be worth the world's hate anyways.

Try doing a job interview with someone who honestly HATES you and see how it turns out. Even if they don't actively just decide to fail you, they'll be inclined to look at everything you do in a negative light.

True stuff.

Now it's all down to what you want your life to be like: a struggle because only one person loves you vs. comfortable, with friends, family and strangers who love you and would love to be around out, but of course, at the price of not finding that one person that could make you the happiest.

The latter seems pretty nice, but it'd be pretty unsatisfying. I choose neutral none

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1:01 pm, Apr 21 2011
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Is it tales from Flowers of Evil?
I love Flowers of Evil wink


i first saw this in narration in seventeen then somewhere else(dont remember) and then in flowers of evil

flowers of evil was beautiful T_T and narration in seventeen too,amazing manhwas <3

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I would rather be loved by everyone, but hated by the one you love. You can almost always get over your love, and its almost always easier with your friends. If you had chosen the other choice, and then the one you loved died, everyone would hate you. And then you would probably end up commiting suicide, or going insane. And i value my life and my sanity.


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4:16 pm, Apr 21 2011
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yeah same here, i haven't met someone worthy enough to give up my whole world for, so i couldn't exactly say. saying that, i think family always comes before anyone else, but once in a lifetime, you'll have to choose between those two choices. if i ever did, i would put my whole self out there and just dont mind at all, but lets hope we never have to come with that decision. roll eyes

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4:21 pm, Apr 21 2011
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To hell with the rest of the world, but the everyone dosent include family right? To be hated by your own children is abit.............

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romantically, i'd rather be loved by the one i love. i haven't fallen in love for real but if i would, it'll be like that. sacrificing to please everyone is too heroic for me. but if i have a child, he/she comes first. cool

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To hell with the rest of the world, but the everyone dosent include family right? To be hated by your own children is abit.............


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would you rather be loved by everyone,but hated by the one you love,or be hated by everyone but loved by the one you love


Your own children would indeed hate you under the given conditions

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Liked by everyone and hated by the one I love. To be honest it would be a lot easier to live with 1 person hating you than everyone but 1 hating you. Yeah I would love this person who hated me but I would get over it considering how everyone likes me and to be honest if this person hated me sooner or later I will hate them because of how shitty they would be acting around me.

Anyway on another note I HAVE BABY RABBITS WOOOOOOT!!! biggrin can't show anyone atm because we can not distract them otherwise the mother will go all cannibal on them. Good luck with the question and peace. ☮

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2:00 pm, Apr 22 2011
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I couldn't care less if everyone hated me if the one I love returned my love. Everyone else wouldn't matter to me.

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family first. you can never replace that. I can't simply give up my whole family for someone. then again, i haven't really fallen in love so.bigrazz

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to be honest, i'd rather be loved by everyone,but hated by the one I love.

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