Given and point taken. I fell under the presumption of falling in love with someone outside immediate family without the sexual stimulation.

To be honest, really never given it much thought.

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Platonic love is important, of course. Guys have friends to that we love and care about our families. For me, at least, my friendships(with both guys and girls) are just as important as romantic relationships. Ultimately it's your friends who are there for you when you break up and if an ex is really cool you can remain friends with that person as well. I can't imagine that this is something that is very different for guys and girls.

I don't think this is what platonic love is about. It's far beyond sexless relationships and friendship.

A question for both genders.

How often do you sexually fantasize to fall asleep?
Sometimes I wonder if it has an effect in helping people to sleep?

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Rape is imminent.

It really does help you fall asleep.

And I guess I do it (not sex, I'm still a virgin) quite often, because a lot of times I can't seem to fall asleep .

I'm a girl by the way.

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Lol i don't think falling asleep would be very easy if you're erect from sexual fantasies.

But you'll probably sleep much better once you've relieved yourself from that .

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I think of cute bishies before going to bed most the time before I go to sleep. Anyway, once I actually do fall asleep, I tend to dream of neutral things. I think by fantasizing about the bishie/ origanal story characters before I fall asleep. It helps to clear my head for a peaceful dream. I tend not to get to many nightmare dreams if I don't do that. Btw I’m a girl.


Ok, guys. I’m writing a realistic fanfiction story, and I need to know how it feels when you’re starting to get an erection, and when you finally release?
The most I've studied up on is that there is a warm tightening feeling before getting an erection? And when the semen comes out, it feels like peeing? How fast can you get a hard-on? I need more detailed response on how it feels like. (Sorry if this already got asked, I'm too tired to look through all the post to find the details to my question)

Also, if you've ever confessed your love to a girl before: do you keep your pride while confessing, and try to act cool? Or do you just not care, and just want to get your feelings out? Even if she might not feel the same?


Girls, what is your most erogenous zone during four play. I mean not touching near the vagaina, what makes you still get very wet?

Side note: sorry asked allot of questions >.<


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Yeah, i was thinking it was the neck for me too.. I wonder if that is the most erogenous zone for most woman?

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i some times do it cause those who sometimes hit on me are 26+ creepers or if im not interested. it sounds harsh but when you have someone who wont leave you alone guy or girl some find themselves lying to avoid them.

You can feel the blood rushing to the penis, which explains the warm and tightening sensation remark. The thing is, once its erect, the only feeling you have is the tightening of the skin, (assuming nothing is touching the erect penis.) However, it becomes HYPER sensitive, which explains why men are always after sex for the feeling of the vagina/etc encompassing it.

For semen ejection, its like a release. It's not the same as pissing however, which makes it very difficult to describe. Think of it as a non-painful abscess that when cut open and the pressure is released; how the area around the abscess begins to instantly feel better due to the lack of pressure.

How quickly a guy gets hard varies from guy to guy, and there really is no average for this.

To answer your love question, it really depends on the girl. I've had a friend of mine wait until he proposed, and another who basically told her a week of when they were going out. The general rule of thumb from my friends is they will wait for their girlfriends to confess before they do. Many of times my friends have lost relationships because they confessed. But it comes down to location (San Diego girls are not London girls for example), personalities, and situation.

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Targeted toward the guys but open to both genders, how do you feel about the double standard, you know, girl sleeps with a lot of guys = h*e, guy sleeps with a lot of girls = da man.

I'm not so sure about high school today (I'm pushing 30) but I do know that when I was in college it was mostly non-factor. Heck, some of my friends even now are looking for these "easy targets" just for the sex factor. Nowadays, it seems to be so common that I think the "double standard" is not being applied as much, or at least in my group.

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Lol, its a double edge sword on both sides. Men aswell as women are concived to be doing certain things as they "should" (to be considered decent) although we think we are in a morden era of no bias to sex.

anyways....CULTURE is the cause! Blame that if you want something to blame.

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