Depends on your partner. Most of my friends are swooning by the idea of a romantic boyfriend. Me? I'd be disgusted. There are girls that like to be pleased, there are girls that please.
Show you care, about her, and about what she thinks. If you do, you'll find out in no time, what she wants from you.

theres something i'd like to add

my friend told me the other day that
she was shopping with her boyfriend
she saw a bag and muttered "oh its cute"
then like 2 weeks later,he got her the bag
you can't imagine how happy she was
not because of the bag,but because he was actually listening to her

A tranny would be the perfect boyfriend.

^^^Forget trannies; gay guys make the best boyfriends (and friends).

*ahem* Anyway...

Treat her like a best friend. Respect her in every way. Listen to her when she talks (unless she talks a lot, then at least pretend to listen to her lol). If you live together, split the chores 50/50. Cook for her (girls love guys who can cook, and don't just cook meat). Occasionally treat her like a Queen (doesn't have to be much, so long as she feels special).

That said, there isn't a such thing as being a perfect anything. Humans are incapable of perfection. I think respect is the biggest thing though. Respect her opinions, respect her choices, respect her space etc. And this goes both ways, of course.

And no, I don't believe you have to like everything about her family, friends, hobbies etc. Just respect them. Accept them. Always be honest to her and, more importantly, yourself. Don't try to act like someone your not. It will hurt your relationship.

This is the opinion of a mature and wise adult

this is from a 16 year old girl:

be yourself because she likes you for who you are! otherwise she wouldn't be your girlfriend
respect her
LISTEN TO HER ( the discussion doesn't need to be important just listen!!!! )
love in your own way and make sure your love can be communicated to her.

if you're looking for bonus points well,,,

-guys who can cook are the best!! (BIG POINTS)
-romantic but not cheesy ( if cheesy from my point of view, you look like you're trying to hard and it looks fake )
-dates!
-a clean guy (not a slob that i'd be embarrassed to show to my friends or family)
-smart (cuz i'm a smart girl i'm a sucker for guys who are smarter than me)
-not cocky
-gifts are great but only if they come from you not your parent's wallet. you dont need to give us one every day but once in a while just to let us know we are special
-reliable (cuz we female tend to think we're always right but when something goes wrong the guys need to be reliable and "save" us from those situations)
-guys who can get along with my friends and family are keepers!
-NICE GUYS! (but not too nice or we'll take advantage of you. bad boys have points too)
-guys who get jealous are too cute!
- and so much others! lol

this is all from my point of view tho!
read absolute boyfriend if you must!

People say "be yourself" but when the tough gets going and you can't be yourself, go ahead and try to be considerate. Like if her family is coming over (being you both are adults) be nice even if they irritate you to make her happy. And do stupid nice things to make her happy, doesn't have to be expensive. JUST NICE. =)
And make sure she knows you love her.
DON'T GIVE HER THE BACK SEAT! She has to be more important than your friends, at least to some extent.
Remember important dates. If you forget, she'll feel unimportant.
Go ahead and give her a hug once in a while. Works both ways ^ ^
Listen to her and stand up to her no matter what. She'll definitely feel loved and that you're on her side.
If she wants to pay for something, let her. You paying for her will make her feel like she can't support herself or that you're treating her like a child.
Take days off with her to share thoughts and just relax.
DON'T FLIRT WITH OTHER GIRLS. She might think you're cheating and you'll lose her so don't be stupid.

Good luck and happy dating.

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hmm interesting... well this is coming from a 16yr who has never had a boyfriend before.. so this is my opinion...
the perfect boyfriend for me could be anyone
since how i'm interpreting the word 'Perfect' is not a guy with no flaws..
but a guy that the girl thinks is just perfect for her even if others think there are heaps of flaws to the guy... so like most of these posts have said... 'Just Be yourself'^^
hopefully that makes sense >.<" hehe

Well all I can think of if you haven't been doing these things will be to:
*Listen and talk - Listen to what she says even if its nothing important and talk about anything..
*Love - Make her feel that you love her with not just words but actions
* Remember - Remember things like dates(anniversaries), b'day, her fav things^^
* Friends - Just because you have a GF don't ditch your friends^^ since they also important to you too.. but make sure that you balance these things and don't forget promises you made with your friends or your gf..
* Family - if your just dating only recently you don't really have to do this.. but get to know her family as well as let her know your family^^ hehe
well let's all I can think of.. but besides these things I can't think of anything else..

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A world without mangas or animes is a world that I don't exist x

You must be independent and dependent.... be honest with each other( about dislike and likes, mainly) and when you live together compromise and doing the dishes goes a long way.... and having money. don't try and force something if it's not working or because it's comfortable. just end it there. trust me I've been there.

ooooh and most importantly!!! to be the perfect boyfriend trade her all of your Eevee and their transformations... even though their your favorite 6 pokemon team.

Have lot's of money, woman like men who can pay there way through life. All that bollocks of for better or for worse when you get married is bullshit. A woman will drop you in a second if you have no money. Your sex could be the best but if she is paying for most of the contraception and late night dinners then it won't last.

Woman = Money

That's a fact if any woman tells you otherwise they are miserable, in denial and most likely a lier. In other words have a job buy her things don't complain and if you do admit you're wrong afterwards because all woman think they're right and even if they are not right they at least think they have a point.

Oh and another thing don't sit there with a blank expression on your face woman will always say what's up? They will repeatedly ask this question until it anoys you to the point where there is now something up.

I hope I have enlightened you about how to be a perfect boyfriend. If I were you I would fuck em and leave them. Never get them pregnaunt otherwise you'll have to commit to something.

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Know your limits and know hers. Be sure to take and give for that is what a relationship is about but never ask for something she can't give, and never give something you can't afford (not only in the literal sense)
That's what I have been doing for 2 years and so, and it's been working pretty well.
Hardly perfect though.


If you want a woman to f**k you, money is all it takes. If you want one to love you, money helps in many ways, but is far from being everything.

One would ask, why the hell would I want a woman to do more than f**king me??
This I can't really explain, I think it depends on the person.
Anyway, a woman who loves you will f**k you more often and for a longer period of time than the one after your money. And she won't give you horns.

Not if you have the money for longer hours. Anyway I remember a joke by richard prior anyone who says they had sex for hours is lieing majority of people have serious fucking for 8 minutes then need 8 hours sleep lol. something along thoughs lines anyway.

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No such thing, be yourself, love and your partner and listen to them.

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"Religion is like a gun, It's only as good as the people holding it and it can easily take a life."

-Personal thought

I've no experience in such things even though I'm a girl myself.. But If I would be your girlfriend I'd have fallen in love with you because you are YOU, and not some made up perfect-boyfriend dude XD So just be yourself

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Twinkle twinkle little star,
How I wonder what you are..
Up above the sky so high..

My good sir... Just what the hell kind of women have you been with?

I was with a loving caring woman for 2 years until she got sick of me not having a job and being more or less broke all the time. I soon realised that no matter how kind I was which honestly even she would agree I was kind and helpful with chores and mostly everything.

It did not matter because I had not anoth money to go out and pay for certain things for her.

Dont mistake this woman for a gold digger because she was nothing of the sort but it's just a fact that you need money to keep a relationship strong.

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