According the the Kamasutra women get 9 times more pleasure out of sex than men. Also, something stops a woman, from freely approaching a man for sex, like men approach women.

Well thats from KS. According to what Ive seen too, women are as perverted, it not more. Just that they dont express it as much as men. I think its in the genes as well as in the culture. Human beings are complex aint they

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I don't think there's anything wrong with women reading hentai. I mean, I do it too (though I'm not open about it). My boyfriend knows about it though and he's completely fine with it. In the end, it's a person's choice whether or not to read hentai. It's just annoying that there are still people who stereotype and think that women who read hentai are "weird" (can't think of a better word).

I think historically, women were required not to be sex-crazy, porn-reading maniac.

simply because if majority of the women were like that before marriage, then there will be population increase and that is disadvantageous to the women in the economic sense.

on the other hand, men can have as many unknown babies as they want. why should they care about diminishing their sexual thoughts?

But reading hentai doesn't have to mean that you have sex a lot though? So how does population increase relate to reading hentai?

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because hentai, and other form of erotic depiction, promotes sex.
in the olden days the all-controlling powerful husband did not like their house-bound life fantasizing about sex in some way other them themselves, they were afraid that fantasy lead to reality. and when the women have baby, the only thing the husband had to tell if the baby was his was the women's word.

and men were possessive and thought of women as property in history. if women are actively erotic, or read hentia that promotes sex, then you can;t tell if the women you're marrying is 'tainted'

I love hentai - ever since I watched it for the 1st time!!

The problem is, I'm getting a little tired of the same ol'rape scene, where women are portraited as weak and pure, unnable to be freely in touch with their sexuality, it's like it's a bad thing, to know your own body and to pursue your own pleasure. Like a sin, something to have a bad conscience about - when girls from hentai get sex (and survive) they usually become mentally unstable, sex addicts (who doesn't remember the girls who in the end can't get enough, to the point where they have to have vibrators upon their pussies and asses 24/7??! LOL).

They can't ave power over their own sexuality.. that's the only thing I don't like about that. I love to see women/girls who know what they want, know how they like it, and have an ACTIVE part in sex!!

It's all about gender equality guys... and to be a "full human", girls! (having power/knowledge/freedom over your own body and life)

Oh, and I'm a girl, straight (although other women's bodies can get me hot 2... have no problem with my own gender! xP lol. It's just that what really gets my juices flowing is men)

I have the same problem too, though not all hentai is like that. I have watched quite a few hentai anime I liked (I now prefer anime to manga since they don't have a lot of fluids everywhere).

I think the reason is that hentai is made for Japanese guys. Sadly, because of their culture, they prefer weak and pure women. Though not all women are like that and the Japanese guys don't even have to require women to be like that IRL, it's a fantasy that can turn them on instead of off. It a very sad truth.

lol - "lot of fluids everywhere"... they really do, dont they?!

About japanese guys sexual fantasy, to rape a weak/pure woman, I've been told it's the japanese Girls fantasy 2... it must be a cultural thing.

Let's just hope there'll be some change in the near future, that we can see more hentai based on a different perspective (a more modern/realistic one) (pleasepleaseplease lol)

It's still not exactly the same. In the girls fantasy it's done by Shinjo Mayu's men who love the girl, while in hentai, it's done by someone who resembles an ugly loser otaku or a fat, bald, ugly man.

Traditionally Japanese women are indeed supposed to be weak and submissive.



Losing virginity early =/= becoming mature early. I am sure in my country, teens become sexually active early too. But that doesn't mean they won't face common teen problems like peer pressure. There is still some stigma attached to girls and their sexuality in many Western countries, usually by boys because they are still mentally immature. They are still kids. The way they think and view the world can be totally different from those of someone say like in their late 20s to 30s.

So the culture I was talking about is the difference between "teen" culture and adult culture.

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Losing virginity early =/= becoming mature early ---> Sure, as much as ---> Older =/= More mature
I ddn't mean it always happened, its just more common than not, as older people being more mature is

Non-virgin girls are more open than virgin ones, sexual experience makes you lose part os this stigma, the fear you have o what peoople will think about you, because you get the notion that you are not the only one, you are actually part of the majority.

Sexual experience can be part of this transition from a teen to an adult, and in my opinion it makes this transition faster.

you are getting off topic
i can´t understand anymore what this has to do with women who read hentai

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These posts really don't have anything to do(I must try harder to keep things on topic ) but looking the discussion as a whole, it has.

My point is that how 'free" woman(mens as well, but that is off topic) are to talk about their sexuality or reading hentai, watching porn and etc. is cultural, obviously each person personality counts too, but I think most of it comes from "culture", from the environment the person grow in, be it expressed in it's ads, how the people in this place act, how early he had his first realtion and other infinites things

I wasn't talking about girls being open or not atctually. What about boys - most boys of those ages are very immature. The stigma is usually attached by boys. How they view women/girls and sexuality is usually very different from that of older people. This often leads to poor communication between the sexes as well as other teen/gender problems. Therefore I wouldn't think it's a good environment for them if I had teenage daughters. But we'd still have to deal with it because that's the world teens live in today.

I wouldn't worry about stuff like that... i started actually with smut stories (yes with full blown sex with all the description on the parts) bout when i 13-14, so were in the same age range then again we are talking about hentai so i might have been about 14-15... so not too far from you

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