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How did you know?..
wow, this topic really had gotten interesting. this may be the last post on this topic, but i have a confession: even at 18, i thought sex was disgusting, germ-filled, indecent, and reminded me too much of animals. Why do two people have to "go to the next level?" it made no sense, it sounded like just a result of peer pressure and social norms, and i kind of found it repulsive.
then i found someone i cared about enough to take the risk despite my aversion. to please them, not me. and, now, i could be said to be an addict.
yea, definitely caught me off guard.
but i've looked up info on celibacy, too. i once thought of my desire to be akin to addiction, so i thought of managing it and one way people do that with real addictions is to "quit cold turkey," right? what i found is several articles and blogs (none of which i saved the links for--sorry) about people who tried going celibate either for long periods of time (decade or more) or short periods of time (6 months or so) and married couples who were sexless but in love.
so to each their own and have at or
don't. some people feel far more confident, self aware, and unrestrained being single/celibate/Asexual. but i highly suggest not just jumping in for curiosity's sake. you can. it just seems like so much could go wrong there..... ok! cheers! hope i gave your brain something to munch on.
I think I will ask a couple questions of my own for the guys.
How often do you guys actually enjoy sex? every time? do you ever fake?
Is anyone here not the sex-crazed maniac society makes men out to be? the way i see "most" men is that sex is always somewhere on the brain, even the really civil ones. and even the non-crazed would choose intercourse 3-4 times a week if they could (and if they aren't working 60 hours a week or something energy-absorbing like that).
If you're more of the intercourse-once-every-other-month kind of guy [or less], how do you deal?
Last edited by lambchopsil at 10:43 pm, Dec 9 2013________________
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