In particular the first section (there are 2 type im looking for) MUST have if possible although i am unsure myself a similar relationship to the webtoons "dear only you don't know" and "mrs angel" in which the wives are actually bad ass ass kicking machines who hide what they can do from their husbands. this one might be a tall order since i've only found those 2 myself.

the second catagory is also romance but hey i dont care if its shoujo no matter if im a guy cause im cool like that , im a guy who will ready anything he finds interesting. i accidentally watched hana sakiru seishounen till the end before i realsed what i had done ( watched shoujo harem lol). anyway i would like the 2nd romance catagory to have like a maid/ninja maid that protects her master because she loves him or starts to fall in love with him BECAUSE she is protecting him, kinda like the manhwa "will" or the manga "kimi no toriko ni nare". best of luck i may have thrown hard ones at ya, i will totally respect all of you and sing praises to your names for the rest of the week if you can give me some good ones to read.

Similar to Kimi wa Boku no Toriko nare, there is Crimson Empire - Circumstances to Serve a Noble, I guess... But it's based on a otome game, so don't expect too much.

already reading that one, got any others?

1. Ore-sama Teacher - the girl pretends to be someone else (a guy) while saving her male friend's butt so he doesn't find out it's her (I remember it happening a few times)

2. Maybe Amanin Shoujo Azuki