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10:24 am, Oct 17 2013
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Well, I'd move into a new place for a year now and I casually greeted our neighbors.
There's this one time when I attend a meeting instead of my parents among "home owners" in our area.
On the meeting I've shared "one" opinion on some matters... and that's where I met this "kid"--probably a high schooler or freshie in college.

This"kid"--a girl moved into our area for a month now and she make friends faster than me.
Well I'm not jealous for that fact of making friends since I'm not making effort of making one and I'm too busy with my life.

Now the thing is that girl is "indirectly" harassing me like whenever I pass by her, she'd say "oh that trash ideas". I'm like wutt on earth did I do to that kid??..like I'm older than her(but I look younger though..trust me I'm like a high schooler.)
Like wut the heck she wants?

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10:36 am, Oct 17 2013
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She wants to have sex with you. You should do it and then report back on it, with details

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10:38 am, Oct 17 2013
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lol...that's going to be some Yuri scene.

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Besdies what Pocono sad, it's possible that she heard your ideas and doesn't like the fact that you have better ideas than she does.

So its either she wants to know you more, or she has an inferiority complex. That's what I can make out of the situation.

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Quote from Pocono
She wants to have sex with you. You should do it and then report back on it, with details
For a moment I thought I was on Reddit.


Some people are just rude for no reason. I consider myself to be a quite friendly person, and I still meet a...holes who say rude things to me without provocation. The best way to deal with them is to ignore them and eventually they shut up.

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Or she wants you to notice her and ignoring her would be adding fuel to the fire and the harrasment becomes more extreme.... Or maybe she's just an asshole who needs to bully someone to feel better of herself.

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I agree with Hanae and just ignore her. Honestly don't give a **** , it's that easy.

The answer to - Am I too sensitive? Yes, I think you are. ( I'm going to leave it at that because anything else I'll say will just sound as if I'm a prick. .... Which maybe I am, but that's not the point here.)

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Post #618079 - Reply to (#618073) by kitty1826x
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Quote from Kitty18dnsz
The answer to - Am I too sensitive? Yes, I think you are. ( I'm going to leave it at that because anything else I'll say will just sound as if I'm a prick. .... Which maybe I am, but that's not the point here.)


Well, I think it's normal to feel confused and worried when someone seems to hate you for no reason. But you shouldn't feel guilty about this if it's not your fault. If you think you did nothing wrong, then clearly that girl has some problems with herself and you should just ignore her, as I said before.

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2:40 pm, Oct 17 2013
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I'd say yes perhaps a little bit. Dont let it bother you though. Like everyone said just ignore it. There are going to be plenty of people throughout your life who will do something like this, its not worth letting them bother you.

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3:05 pm, Oct 17 2013
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You aren't too sensitive, anyone who have ears and can hear will feel irritated.

Now you're old enough to call a university/high school student a kid but still don't know what to do? Fine, I will give you some advice.

1. Talk to her about this matter. You all can guess what she want but not what she really want. If she refuses, try it repeatedly until she's open or
2. Blackmail her, not anyone can do this though. But if you succeed, it's payback time biggrin or
3. The last is to avoid her. Just ignoring her won't do much if you still pass her by and hear the insult.

It's easier if you both were guys, just beat him good and problem solved.

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talk back. not the "let's talk about it" talking. I used to be a grey mouse and take everything, but talking back is great. Don't ignore that bitch. Are you bigger than her? You could still beat her.

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It sounds like she's trying to bully you. Ignoring a bully usually only makes things worse. Pop her in the face one if legally possible. That usually worked for my sister at least. If not, being blunt about it and just confronting her and not smacking her in the face in front of a large crowd works too. Don't "let's talk about it". Pick a fight with her. Yes, that's immature but it's probably the fastest way of getting her off your back. Either that, or it will escalate problems. Then you can call the police. laugh

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Post #618117 - Reply to (#618054) by wrensei
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11:43 pm, Oct 17 2013
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she wants to be your friend. i guess there's not a lot of young people that went to the meeting, and you are her only choice. she's a tsundere i tell you.

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I'd confront her about it. If it's making you uncomfortable, tell her she's being rude and ask her why she's doing it. If she refuses to answer, tell her to knock it off and ignore her if she continues.

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1:09 am, Oct 18 2013
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I'll ignore her for now.
If this won't work and things got worse, I'll drop the bomb.



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