OK, so basically I'm needing help finding a good few yaoi manga's to read. Lately all the ones i'm coming across are just silly or about nothing worth reading.
Really i just want to find one that's about two that fall for each other but stand on equal ground. A manga that's about their budding relationship.
Examples would be:
Brother, Koi wa ina mono myouna mono, Bokutachi wa asu ni mukatte ikiru no da

But, i don't want anything that's just about sex.
AKA:
Go Con -Gokujou Rakuen Tours,

It's also annoying to find the stories where one of the two looks and acts like he's 13 or a girl. yes, i understand in relationships with guys someone takes on a feminine role but come on do they have to act like....
April 4th, kohitsuji hokaku keikaku,

Any help or suggestions are greatly appreciated. Thank you very much.

Hrm. Equal ground is sort of subjective. How about:

Kanjou Spectrum (excellent oneshot!)
Shiosai (second-favorite yaoi oneshot)
Presentiment
Okujou Fuukei
Arashi no Ato

As a side note, it sounds like what you want is more shounen-ai than yaoi, so you might want to do searches for that instead?

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From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."

Yeah looks like you're looking for a cutesy comedy type yaoi/shounen-ai

All of these are about them falling in love/budding relationships-
Hatsuai really cute and funny
Bara to Yaban also really cute
La Satanica
Wonderful Days? roommates turned lovers a great read
Aishiteru highly recommended
Koi no Shizuku the first main couples story is great
I Want to be Naughty
Kirai ja nai kedo sequel to ^^
Wonderful Life very highly recommended if that's the type you're looking for.

And I second Kanjou Spectrum (favorite oneshot ever) and Arashi no Ato.

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Lucky-Kun if step-sibs don't bother you
Dear Green: Hitomi no Ounowa
Tsuki to Sandal
Kinou Nani Tabeta?
Off*Beat
Seven Days - Monday→Thursday
Tonari no Kare
Yellow
Koi ga Bokura wo Yurusu Hani

Weird equality relationships:
Not/Love and just about everything else by the mangaka
Let Dai - doesn't seem like it, but the actual control structure in the 'ship is so messed up that it may fit your requirements

probably half the manga in this thread: yaoi about childhood friends

Bokura ni Matsuwaru Etcetera
Mirai no Kioku (the guy is feminine, but gay feminine not girly feminine, it's good comedy)
Kaze no Yukue (the sequel)
Kawaii Hito (KONNO Keiko)

Thank you all so much. These are all great suggestions!!!

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